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Hi, I have been having sex and doing other stuff with this girl I met online for about 2 weeks now. I think i should mention that she has a child. She said that I shouldn't get too attracted and that she wasn’t ready for any dates or a relationship because she just got out of one, but I do think she is pretty cool and I would like to date her. I told her how I felt about her yesterday and she said that she would call me back about it later. I texted her after asking her if she still wanted to hang out with me after I told her that and she said of course. She then said she just doesn’t want to lose me forever.

 

I then talked to her that night and she said that she doesn’t know how she feels about me yet, but when she is ready to date, I would be at the top of her list. She then said she would like it if I came to hang out with her and her friends again at a club they wanted to go to.

 

I am just not sure where to go from here. Should I continue to hang out with her even though I do want to date her or should I just wait for her to contact me when she is ready to? I just can’t figure out what I should do. I mean I don’t want to wait forever to see if she will come around, but I am really attracted to her. I am just wicked confused about this at the moment.

If you have any questions, I can answer them for you.

 

Thank you so much for your responses.

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Break it off, you will only be hurt. She's being polite but honest with you, she doesn't want the same thing as you. This will not work, even if you lie to yourself and say you can have a sex-only relationship with her. You really can't, you will set yourself up to be hurt. Break it off.

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