wnt2saveit Posted March 22, 2013 Posted March 22, 2013 I have been seeing a divorced woman with a kid and i am also divorced with kids. The question is we go out 1-2 per month when we can. She is always all over me in public or in front of her friends. But then she makes plans knows i don't have kids with her friends to do something then she texts me all day what am i doing, what bar am i at etc, then she gives me details about her day, if i don't respond i get the are you ignoring me text. She was in a bachelorete auction and was so shocked that i wasn't going to bid or be there. I didn't go but I did meet up with her later where once again she is all over me right in front of the guy who just won a date, we left and went to another bar she sitting on my lap whispering in my ear but she won't come over to my house because she isn't ready for sex but we do everything else. what should i do--- i know there are multiple guys chasing her do i play along or just fade back and let her chase after me.
MidwestUSA Posted March 22, 2013 Posted March 22, 2013 Let one of the guys who is chasing her have her.
Author wnt2saveit Posted March 22, 2013 Author Posted March 22, 2013 easier said then done. I really do like her and when we are out we always have such a good time. She has said she isn't ready for a committed relationship buit her best friend went out one night to the bar with us and when she stepped away the friend said she is so into you, she is just scared that you are going to hurt her and to stay after her. I said I was getting to the point of giving up with the chasing someone who doesn't want to get caught -- she said again she is scared and is just getting over the divorce- he cheated on her and she filed. divorce was in final in may. when I back off and dont text she always reaches out to me....she even asks me out on dates to so I'm not the one always asking...
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