Love triangle haha

[manchild]

Ok going try keep it short but want suggestions?? We work together n have fell in love she is unhappy married but has two kids wants to stay for them! We talk everyday at work n get along great she tells me how she loves me n knows I'd make her happy! She also said all I can offer you right now is talking to u at work when we can and only will see me at work etc , but can't call or anything, when she is home because she doesn't want to give up on her family, she said you are my best friend and loves me n knows I'd make her so happy but can't do it right now! She asked me could I work with that situation and keep it the way it is right now? Also she said I don't want u to wait around n miss out on anything! She 34 I'm 33! What you think she really saying or what I should stay friends or bail? Honest truth please everyone reply need some really good ideas and what she is actually thinking! Thanks

[WhatYouWantToHear]

What an apt name for a person who is not only in this situation, but doesn't know what to do about it. So let me make the decision for you: bail.

[fungusamungus]

Is it really that hard to figure out? Her family is more important than having an office fling.

[kamani]

This is as simple as this.

 

This should come under The Other W/M heading. You are having an emotional affair with her. This will kill her already fragile marriage and take away your opportunities of meeting the right person.

[manchild]

Thanks all I have made that decision I told her I'm walking away!! n now she wants to talk about it wth?

[Cogee]

It's as simple as this: if she wants you, she needs to leave her marriage. Until she leaves her marriage you should avoid her completely and move on. She wants to talk because she wants to use you while she lives her illusionary life.

 

Only way out of this is to pack up and leave.