Author Sarabi Posted March 23, 2013 Author Posted March 23, 2013 What did you get that was sweet? Something excellent I hope! And what shoes did you decide to wear tomorrow night? I'm a shoe fan... so I'm looking forward to finding out. Hello shoe fan ever buy stuff from irregular choice? I love them! Anyway tomorrow night I might go with my Dorothy Heels(lol) that I got from Faith... They are a couple of years old but they still look great. Here is a link. I bought them in red but they came in white and various other colours. I also have them as a slingback in a dusky pink from when the company was going into administration
Author Sarabi Posted March 23, 2013 Author Posted March 23, 2013 You should look for them I think other shops started selling them as a concession. I am not sure where you might find them in the US but you could try. I have two red pairs but this one I love because the heel is pretty and sparkly 1
Author Sarabi Posted March 23, 2013 Author Posted March 23, 2013 A douche has a purpose. He sounds like a used wipe from the bum. Woah...! Lol. you know its weird...I can't bring myself to think bad things about him (still have feelings etc.) but maybe there is a part of what you guys are saying that is right. Actually. There is DEFINITELY a part of what you guys say that is right.
Author Sarabi Posted March 23, 2013 Author Posted March 23, 2013 Happy saturday people!!! Guess what I woke up to..? Yes, another Unfortunately I didn't read it until about two hours later by which time I was absorbed in something else aside from the cold and the snow(looking for food and blowing my salary-this is my favourite pasttime ). "Ok S. I know I said some hurtful things but I was angry and I had a right to be. However I think life is too short not to have the people you LOVE in it. You really must be enjoying this eh? To see me beg...I would do ANYTHING to have you back S. YOU mean a lot to me. I LOVE YOU XXX" The man must be having trouble sleeping. The time was 7.01am when he sent that I promptly went about my business...because, you know...he told me never to contact him again and also that "he has a right to be angry" :rolleyes: :rolleyes: 2
TaraMaiden Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 I must say I have nothing but admiration for your will-power... it's almost as if you're plugged into him, and everything he gives, you just absorb through the skin and just get stronger.... This is so cool...... 3
psm04 Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 Happy saturday people!!! "Ok S. I know I said some hurtful things but I was angry and I had a right to be. However I think life is too short not to have the people you LOVE in it. You really must be enjoying this eh? To see me beg...I would do ANYTHING to have you back S. YOU mean a lot to me. I LOVE YOU XXX" "Right to be angry.". What a jerk. He should have kept his "rightful anger(sarcasm)" to himself instead of being a complete ahole, and then turn around and beg like a little puppy. Your strength is very inspirational. If I get an angry email from my OMM to whom I have sent another 'this is over' email, I will have to read your post for inspiration on not to respond!
Author Sarabi Posted March 23, 2013 Author Posted March 23, 2013 Hey good luck...hope he stops bugging you with emails! Me? I keep the messages. And I remember the words of the one that started it off so anytime I am getting "I love you, I want to make it up" etc...I scroll back to that first text and remind myself why I am keeping quiet. Plus he told me he had a loving wife-he should be making it up to HER ! And he said that I am not good enough to offer a man anything...so let me offer him silence. I don't want to retaliate and stoop to a low level. I honestly wish him peace and happiness but me...I am staying quiet. Too many books to read, DVDs to watch, friends to catch up with, shoes to go dancing in and sweet cravings to take care of 4
Patrice Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 Good girl, the silence drives them nuts ... and knowing you can do as you please ... NC, keep at it. He made his bed, let him lie in it or man up ... people make choices, you have a right to make yours too. Get out, have fun, and ignore him.
LFH Posted March 23, 2013 Posted March 23, 2013 I honestly wish him peace and happiness but me...I am staying quiet. Too many books to read, DVDs to watch, friends to catch up with, shoes to go dancing in and sweet cravings to take care of Shoes to dance in!!!!! Go go go!!!!
Author Sarabi Posted March 24, 2013 Author Posted March 24, 2013 Good girl, the silence drives them nuts ... and knowing you can do as you please ... NC, keep at it. He made his bed, let him lie in it or man up ... people make choices, you have a right to make yours too. Get out, have fun, and ignore him. Thanks for the support!
ComingInHot Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 Sarabi, you don't think he turn again to the ugliness he showed again do you? Hopefully he'll get the picture and just stop. I do woeey a little that he'll become obsessed and mean and continue to try and hurt you w/his possible continued communication... You shouldn't have to deal w/that. Period.
georgia girl Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 Listen to promises and Coming In Hot. They give great advice. And ignore him. That will drive him absolutely nuts. He will get more and more desperate and you can relish in the fact that he's absolutely miserable. At the same time, don't miss parties with friends. Living well is the best revenge. This guy was a taker, Sarabi. You have escaped him. Soon, you will celebrate that fact. It may hurt now, but focus on really healing and staying away from the jerk so that you can soon enjoy your life to the fullest with a man who deserves you. 1
Got it Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 Hey good luck...hope he stops bugging you with emails! Me? I keep the messages. And I remember the words of the one that started it off so anytime I am getting "I love you, I want to make it up" etc...I scroll back to that first text and remind myself why I am keeping quiet. Plus he told me he had a loving wife-he should be making it up to HER ! And he said that I am not good enough to offer a man anything...so let me offer him silence. I don't want to retaliate and stoop to a low level. I honestly wish him peace and happiness but me...I am staying quiet. Too many books to read, DVDs to watch, friends to catch up with, shoes to go dancing in and sweet cravings to take care of You know I was taught when you don't have anything nice to say you don't say anything at all. :laugh: Good of you to follow the same advice. You are doing awesome!
waterwoman Posted March 25, 2013 Posted March 25, 2013 Good for you sarabi But what the f* does he had to be angry about? He seems a little confused....
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