Damaged23 Posted March 21, 2013 Posted March 21, 2013 Hey guys! Today has been such a hard day for me. I've been home the whole day and it's starting to hit me how lonely I feel. I'd be down to do anything if only I had some company. My friends are always busy and i feel lonelier than ever. Days like this make me miss my ex boyfriend so much. I miss his company terribly:( What do you guys do when you start feeling lonely and have no one to keep you company? 1
The Tallest One Posted March 22, 2013 Posted March 22, 2013 Damaged23, Hi, I'm sorry your feeling so lonely. I can relate, having a rather tough day myself. Almost five weeks post bu and it's hard. I went for a coffee with a fairly new friend after work today and that was nice. I was a little nervous, it takes me a while to feel relaxed with people who I'm just getting to know. You have to get outside, go anywhere for a while, the change of scenery helps. Pamper yourself any way you can to make yourself feel better even if it's only for a little while. Maybe you can volunteer or join a club or group to expand your social circle and make new friends. I'm tring to do this now since I don't see my friends a lot either. Rent a good movie or read a good book. Call someone you haven't talked to in a while. Try and go to places in your city you usually do go much. Change things up a little. Just some ideas. Hope tomorrow is a better day for you! Hugs! 1
Sexy Teddy Bear Posted March 22, 2013 Posted March 22, 2013 Mostly, I try to ignore the feeling. haha, that's pretty pathetic, but that's me. I feel lonely most days. I wouldn't say most days are bad, just a bit lonely. I'm so use to talking to my ex, telling her everything I did that day, talking about and hobbies I'm working on, listening to her bitch about girls she knows, even hearing her say "I'm doing the laundry". All that stuff I miss. I think the loneliness has been setting in worse recently. I have been thinking about her much more than normal. Pretty much constantly all day. Last night was the first night in a while that I lost sleep over this feeling. Jesus, even at this moment I'm thinking, "Wow, at this very moment, she is giving her new douche boyfriend all the attention she use to give me". I know how you feel. and plenty of other people on here do as well. Sometimes the loneliness is just unavoidable. We just have to get through it as best we can. Sometimes we can get through it a week at a time. And other times we are forced to drag ourselves through each miserable second hoping for this unbearably painful minute to be over only to crash face first into yet another minute. 1
McGriff Posted March 22, 2013 Posted March 22, 2013 You are not alone...was a hard day for me too. My girlfriend was a huge sports fan (dream girl) and watching the NCAA Tourney today, I missed her soooo bad. I'm going to the bar to watch tonight's games, and normally she would be with me and we would have a great time. I'll be alone, and dude it just sucks SO BAD! Normally my cellphone dings 20-30 times a day from sending me little love messages, and now it just lays silent. Maybe I'll pay some of my friends to just text me so I can hear it dinging again haha ---so you guys aren't alone. 1
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