snowman4839 Posted March 21, 2013 Posted March 21, 2013 I'm a freshman in college and I've made a fair amount of guy friends but only a couple female friends. Most of the time, I go to class alone, eat alone, and I just go about my day alone. Now I'm very quiet in public settings (like class) but very fun and talkative when I'm with friends (even if I am in a public setting). I act like a completely different person when I have just one friend with me. Like I talk to strangers (which I almost never do when I'm alone), I talk loudly, and act more personable in general. I basically get drunk with confidence haha. Like when I visited another college last weekend, I saw my other good female friend who brought a hot friend. It was obscenely easier start conversations with the hot friend, act like myself, and not feel pressured. I haven't had to try to make friends for awhile until I got to college and I became very uncomfortable because I was so used to having a big social network. I just didn't remember finding friends being this difficult. Is this normal? I feel like the only caveat to making friends is having friends. Like after freshman year, does it get easier?
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