prevch Posted September 10, 2004 Posted September 10, 2004 I talked to my ex like two and a half maybe three weeks ago and since then have been doing no contact. We have been broken up for about 2 and a half months/ I think about her constantly and I am guessing that she thinks of me from time to time considering we were so close and had such an awesome relationship. anyways today I was on ICQ, an instant messaging service for those not familiar, anyway I was on ICQ and I saw her name online. I did not send her a message I just read her away message and it read: "There's always that one person who will always have your heart, you'll never see it coming cause you're blinded from the start, know that you're that one for me" Lyrics from that usher/alicia keys song "you'll always be my boo". Now I am guessing that that message had to be geared towards me because she knows I get on ICQ from time to time and she wanted me to see it. also her new boyfriend does not have icq to my knowledge nor would he have been in a position to read it cuz he is at work all day. I know she is with someone else right now but do you think I should contact her? It is really hard for me to decide what to do. Any ideas?
Merin Posted September 10, 2004 Posted September 10, 2004 Hmmm Well, considering she is with someone new, I guess I would caution you not to read to much into this. You say to your knowledge her boyfriend doesn't have this particular instant message program and that he works all day. While I don't want to be a downer here, it is possible that he does have this program and it is possible that he wasn't at work or has access to a pc at work. I'm not going to say she didn't mean it for you, but I wouldn't read to much into it IF she really hasn't done to much to try to contact you directly. Sorry....... I don't want to discourage you, but I don't want you to get your hopes up and then be hurt a lot if it wasn't meant for you.
Author prevch Posted September 10, 2004 Author Posted September 10, 2004 yah I definitely know what you mean. thanks!
Author prevch Posted September 10, 2004 Author Posted September 10, 2004 I feel like she is going to contact me soon. I hope my gut instinct is right.
Merin Posted September 10, 2004 Posted September 10, 2004 *keeping my fingers crossed for ya* Let me know what happens!
Author prevch Posted September 10, 2004 Author Posted September 10, 2004 Will do. Most of the time my gut feeling is right but we will see I may be totally off. My guess is that she will contact me before Sep 30th. In fact I think it will be closer to the 18th but we will see Thanks for everyone's support!
Blah Toolz Posted September 10, 2004 Posted September 10, 2004 My ex did something similar to this... and I didn't read into it too much. She had an away message up on her AOL Instant Messenger after our last class together... that said "You'll always be my heart's strongest weakness." Something like that, I knew it was for me. We didn't talk for a while... and she was even a gruesome bitty on the phone when we spoke a few months ago... but she did call to wish me a happy birthday. And we did have a genuine, friendly conversation when I saw her at school yesterday for the first time in four months. Nothing has happened though, and I don't read into it too much -- maybe she just needs time to explore other options like you said... don't know if I believe in that, but oh well. Hope it works out in the best way for you.
Author prevch Posted September 10, 2004 Author Posted September 10, 2004 thanks. Yah I think she just needs time and space. I have to let her go for now and if she comes back then hey I guess it was meant to be
backspn Posted September 11, 2004 Posted September 11, 2004 Sounds like she is testing the waters with you again. Girl's, like guys dont want to get back unless they feel like they can. They dont want rejection. I may be way off with this but I have a feeling this is what it is.
Author prevch Posted September 11, 2004 Author Posted September 11, 2004 maybe who knows. But I just kind of stopped caring. I love her but it is her loss not mine
backspn Posted September 11, 2004 Posted September 11, 2004 I wish you the bet and I will pray for you. One thing that I've learned is that EVERYONE deserves a 2nd chance, even when it was her fault. Best wishes
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