sully35rq Posted September 10, 2004 Posted September 10, 2004 Question about my long distance relationship??? I am in the army down here in Texas, I am origanally from massachusetts!! when I came back from Iraq I met this wonderful girl at my homecoming party at my sisters house!! we hit it off pretty good!! we spent some quality time together!! (no sex) she is 32 a single mom of two, and I am a single dad of one!! 33 when I came back to texas a month later she flew down here with her son and spent a whole week with me!! before that we were comunicating via email, phone!! every day!! we have alott in common, and she also flew down again for a week in july wich we had the most wonderful date that either of us have ever been on!! well my question is she is a RN back in Ma and works with a few sexy men!! and in a few emails she has mentioned this one guy in particular!! and it gets me concerned!! she says that she loves me very much!! but for some reason I have this gut feeling she has other things on her mind!! she has said that she will wait for me!! cuz she knows that I am getting out!! but she is not use to seperation and I can tell this!! I have been honest with her about everything that I do!! and I am wondering if she will do the same!! I know she has seperation sickness but damn does she really need to tell me about what goes on at work?? for some reason I am expecting her to tell me that it is over and that she has sombody new!! it would be a shame because from what I could tell about her past she has had some rough boys in her life!! and she says that I am the first guy that has not treated her bad!! or abuse her in anyway!! maybe because I was not raised like that!! I just hope that she does not do something that will affect our relationship!! if she does do things with this younger guy!! 27, I can tell that this kid is the one who only wants one thing from her!! sexxxx it makes me ill to think that she would do something like this if it was to happen!! because she would be heading down the same road that I got her off of!! and she knows that I love her and her children!! but all I can do is pry that she does not do this!! and if she does that she would tell me!! that is all I ask!! tell me!! well I guess if it does happen I know who I am and what I have to offer!! I will just move on and deal with it!! like the army says deal with it!!! so I guess I will
Love2share Posted September 10, 2004 Posted September 10, 2004 Yes it can work. But it's not easy. You both HAVE to be on the same page with EVERYTHING. Communication is the key. Honesty and Trust are huge factors. Be creative about the things you do together while away from each other. Me and my ex used to watch movies over the phone together. We had a certain night to watch a certain show every week on TV. We would rent the same movie, play it at the same time, and be on the phone with each other while we watched. It was a lot of fun. But it was all ruined because of dishonesty. Don't let that happen to you.
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