luckster Posted September 10, 2004 Posted September 10, 2004 Okay...ive posted before Ive been dating a guy for 1 month and we have been on about 5 dates. He always mentions the future, even asked me if i'd be interested in attending an upcoming concert. He is very busy with law school...he just started 2 weeks ago. Heres the thing, I usually call him and he calls me back..I never ask for dates, he always does that. And this past sunday he did call me first. He even told me to call him monday, so I did and we chatted. He held my hand the entire date, and on a previous date he said he was looking for a stable relationship. I know its only thursday, but how often in a new relationship do guys call and would it be wrong for me to call this early on, again. Should I be worried he hasnt called, although, he always waits forever...i usually end up calling...why do men do this?
dnm1010 Posted September 14, 2004 Posted September 14, 2004 you know i have alwasy made it a point to be freidns with somone before lovers because i think the basis of a relationship is the friendship. i dont think you need to follow other poeples directions on when to call. call when you feel like it. from what it sounds to me... youre almost in a steady relationship with him already. just relax and let nature take its toll. youll feel more comfortable soon.. i dont even remembr how many times i call my bf a day ... and we spend most of the day together anyway! best of luck!
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