FrustratedGuy91 Posted March 21, 2013 Posted March 21, 2013 (edited) There was this girl I slept with once, and then didn't see again for a while (HERE is a previous post if anyone needs the more details) Anyway, I recently went out with her again, and while she told me things during the date like, "Well that's what happens when you go out with your friend" We ended up making out (and a bit more +18 stuff) in the backseat of my truck, though we didn't have sex. After that a day passed and then she told me if I wanted to hang out with her and some friends, which ended up being her and a female friend we have in common and this time nothing happened. Even though we dropped our friend by her place and then went for a couple of beers, she had to wake up early the next day, so I decided not to make any moves. Today she told me she had a party with co-workers but we could meet up after. Now this is where it gets a bit tricky, she told me the party would be over late, but being the night owl I am I didn't mind. So around 1:30 AM she calls me to pick her up, she also tells me she's a bit drunk. I tell her it'll take me a while, she tells me it's okay and I arrive around 2 AM. Turns out that what she claimed was a monumental understatement. She was REALLY drunk, I offer to take her home several times, but she refuses and wants us to go see a friend that was at some bar at the time. Having no choice, I agree, but half way there, she decides to stay napping in the back seat. I decide to go into the bar to chat a while (But I ask her if she wants me to take her home, before. She says it's okay and that she'll be fine) So I go into the bar for around half an hour, chat a bit with my friend and then decide to go check on her. That's when I see one of the doors of my truck was open and she was about to throw up. I go to assist her, but she ends up not throwing up. At that point I told her "I'm taking you back to your place" to which she said "Yes, please". She apologized at least 5 times during the trip (to which I replied it was ok and she needn't to apologize at all). And then after I left her home I got a text from her apologizing again, and thanking me a lot for doing what I did. Now, I'm not angry at all with her. She has seen me even more drunk and even accompanied me while a friend took me home. My question is, how should I react to this? I believe she didn't mean to use me as a cab, so I shouldn't care at all. But I'm not sure. What do you people think? Edited March 21, 2013 by FrustratedGuy91
TaraMaiden Posted March 21, 2013 Posted March 21, 2013 I think your question is frankly inane and there are other things you could spend your time deep-thinking about.... because this? It's just stupid stuff, man..... Jeesh. Oh, and I feel I should tell you white sox never go with dark shoes and jeans. Just in case you get the urge to ask, in future.....
MidwestUSA Posted March 21, 2013 Posted March 21, 2013 You left a girl passed out in your truck while you went into a bar? No thought given to someone coming along and raping her, or worse? No thought to her choking on her own vomit? Really?
Author FrustratedGuy91 Posted March 21, 2013 Author Posted March 21, 2013 To clarify, she wasn't passed out. She was legitimately sleeping, when I took her home she was awake. Also my question is whether should I be upset about she using me as a cab or if it was an honest mistake from her and ultimately my fault? Oh and about the age thing. Here the legal age is 18, we're both more than 21 so yeah...
TaraMaiden Posted March 21, 2013 Posted March 21, 2013 How would 'using you as a cab' be a mistake on her part? She didn't ASK you to be her 'cab'. At that point I told her "I'm taking you back to your place" to which she said "Yes, please". She apologized at least 5 times during the trip (to which I replied it was ok and she needn't to apologize at all). You offered, she accepted. Where is this 'using' you? Why would you consider it a 'mistake on her part'? What were you looking for a fare.... Sex? Maybe that was your mistake....
Author FrustratedGuy91 Posted March 21, 2013 Author Posted March 21, 2013 How would 'using you as a cab' be a mistake on her part? She didn't ASK you to be her 'cab'. You offered, she accepted. Where is this 'using' you? Why would you consider it a 'mistake on her part'? What were you looking for a fare.... Sex? Maybe that was your mistake.... Well we're kinda FWB, so indeed. I just wanted to make sure that my reaction was appropriate. I had some girls using me (Really using me) so I'm just not sure anymore. Thanks for the input.
TaraMaiden Posted March 21, 2013 Posted March 21, 2013 Well we're kinda FWB, so indeed. I just wanted to make sure that my reaction was appropriate. I had some girls using me (Really using me) so I'm just not sure anymore. Thanks for the input. See, this is the problem, nowadays. People were created to be loved. Things were created to be used. The reasons why forming relationships is so phukkedup, is that things are being loved, and people are being used.
Author FrustratedGuy91 Posted March 21, 2013 Author Posted March 21, 2013 See, this is the problem, nowadays. People were created to be loved. Things were created to be used. The reasons why forming relationships is so phukkedup, is that things are being loved, and people are being used. I know what you mean. Believe me I've been there and now in retrospective I can honestly say this girl wasn't using me at all. We're also good friends regardless of anything so yeah... I guess I needed someone else to point out some things to realize it. Thank you again
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