hurst9 Posted March 21, 2013 Posted March 21, 2013 I met this girl online..we exchanged many emails. In one of our exchanges she said "that is what friends are for" which was a red flag to me. Anyway we finally met. There were no awkward silences I felt we had good chemistry and she even talked about going out to a club together in the future. I had a few drinks and got a little drunk. When she came back from the bathroom I took her hand and put her on my lap:laugh: She sat there for a bit. Then we walked to the bus stop where she sat on my lap again. On our 2nd meet after we left the restaurant, she took my hand and we held hands while walking to the club. After we sat down at the club she said she wanted to be friends..said I was cute it was nothing personal Sat on my lap again and we spent the entire time there caressing each other..she put her hands down my pants and touched my butt..we kissed a little. 3rd meeting she initiated contact by touching my leg, then rubbing my knee/leg and tickling the palm of my hand with her fingers. A day later I asked if she wanted to sleep over. She responded by saying "remember what I said about being friends:p" I was kind of upset. Friends do not do that kind of touching. She also said I was very huggable. I would appreciate any advice you may have. Thank you. 1
carhill Posted March 21, 2013 Posted March 21, 2013 Welcome to LS IME, being around here for a few years, such examples are variously known as 'attention whores' and/or 'cock teases'. They use sexual stimulation to gather attention and interest from orbiters who hang around because of said stimulation in the hopes of it becoming PIV and/or a relationship. My largest experience with these kinds of women over the decades have been married ones. Unsurprisingly, they have generally been considered by the men in their demographic to be attractive. My advice would be to invest your time and interest into women who do not send such mixed signals, and especially not committed or married women who enjoy playing with men's sexuality. Good luck. 2
todreaminblue Posted March 21, 2013 Posted March 21, 2013 I met this girl online..we exchanged many emails. In one of our exchanges she said "that is what friends are for" which was a red flag to me. Anyway we finally met. There were no awkward silences I felt we had good chemistry and she even talked about going out to a club together in the future. I had a few drinks and got a little drunk. When she came back from the bathroom I took her hand and put her on my lap:laugh: She sat there for a bit. Then we walked to the bus stop where she sat on my lap again. On our 2nd meet after we left the restaurant, she took my hand and we held hands while walking to the club. After we sat down at the club she said she wanted to be friends..said I was cute it was nothing personal Sat on my lap again and we spent the entire time there caressing each other..she put her hands down my pants and touched my butt..we kissed a little. 3rd meeting she initiated contact by touching my leg, then rubbing my knee/leg and tickling the palm of my hand with her fingers. A day later I asked if she wanted to sleep over. She responded by saying "remember what I said about being friends:p" I was kind of upset. Friends do not do that kind of touching. She also said I was very huggable. I would appreciate any advice you may have. Thank you. it isnt appropriate for friends to do this.......or to lead guys on....if a friend who is male slaps my butt or touches me in a manner i find sexual and i do know th edifference..........i make it clear that it isnt appropriate and i am single and have it happen a bit..makes em feel a bit meatish....it gets me down...i dont think its alright for a female to do this to a male either........i wish you the best....she isnt a friend if she continues to do this......deb 1
SJC2008 Posted March 21, 2013 Posted March 21, 2013 Given yall met online she's proably fresh out of an R and needs male attention. She's dangling a carrot in front of you and pulling it away when you go to far. Next her!
Author hurst9 Posted March 21, 2013 Author Posted March 21, 2013 Given yall met online she's proably fresh out of an R and needs male attention. She's dangling a carrot in front of you and pulling it away when you go to far. Next her! Yes she told me that she broke up with her bf in early december. Yes I was thinking the exact thing. She is just craving some attention from a man but does not want to go further than that. I really enjoy being with her though. Which is rare. She is a lot of fun to be with. But yes, I do have to next her. And I have to stop trying to meet women online:D
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