blindhope Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 My GF of 7 years recently blindsided me with a NC "break" and moved back to her parents. I didn't adhere for the first two weeks, trying to be the sweet and show her I still loved her. Then she agreed to see me. Here's where I did every thing wrong a desperate man does. She cried and laughed but didn't say much. Bullet points, she loved me, was in therapy, didn't think I respected her field(she's also a therapist) which I do. And said eventually she may want to possible see other people as we may have taken each other for granted since we have been each others only healthy relationships. She asked me to tell her If I started to see someone and promised she would tell me. We've had a great relationship and been looking to get engaged, talked marriage, family and kids. Since then about a month+ ago I've only contacted her to stay Happy Birthday, and Congrats for a work achievement which she replied Thank You!, and then an quick e-mail to say I'm still here for her if she needs me( I know) Then nothing. Nothing for 2 weeks. So I deleted her from phone, FB, and tried to cut all options I could.How could someone who've been together for so long and so much just walk away? How could she not have any regret? So I sit here and wonder does she love me, was this cowards break-up, does she miss me, is there any hope, why disconnect from me and everyone around me, even people she was close with. Why not talk or try and work it out with how much we had together? I am not ready to walk away from our life together without knowing for sure.
thefooloftheyear Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 My GF of 7 years recently blindsided me with a NC "break" and moved back to her parents. I didn't adhere for the first two weeks, trying to be the sweet and show her I still loved her. Then she agreed to see me. Here's where I did every thing wrong a desperate man does. She cried and laughed but didn't say much. Bullet points, she loved me, was in therapy, didn't think I respected her field(she's also a therapist) which I do. And said eventually she may want to possible see other people as we may have taken each other for granted since we have been each others only healthy relationships. She asked me to tell her If I started to see someone and promised she would tell me. We've had a great relationship and been looking to get engaged, talked marriage, family and kids. Since then about a month+ ago I've only contacted her to stay Happy Birthday, and Congrats for a work achievement which she replied Thank You!, and then an quick e-mail to say I'm still here for her if she needs me( I know) Then nothing. Nothing for 2 weeks. So I deleted her from phone, FB, and tried to cut all options I could.How could someone who've been together for so long and so much just walk away? How could she not have any regret? So I sit here and wonder does she love me, was this cowards break-up, does she miss me, is there any hope, why disconnect from me and everyone around me, even people she was close with. Why not talk or try and work it out with how much we had together? I am not ready to walk away from our life together without knowing for sure. i hate to say this.... But sometimes the silence speaks louder than any words... Good Luck to you.. TFOY
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