NewPerspective93 Posted March 28, 2013 Posted March 28, 2013 Lurking through an ex's FB is NEVER good. What were you trying to find exactly, hope that she might have broken up with that guy? Looking through an ex's FB only yields false hope that comes back to bite you when you find out what's really going on. First and foremost, you need to block her. I understand the shaking feeling, for I have also experienced it back when I was looking through her FB, feeling like my skin would crawl off. Lesson well learned. It sucks doesn't it? She doesn't give a damn because she no longer cares about the relationship you both were in. Remember, anger is never good and holding it in will not yield positive results. I see where you're coming from, but you DON'T want to become bitter because of this by holding on to anger. Go out and DO something to keep your mind off of her. It will be hard, but force yourself to focus on whatever task you have in front of you. Smile, and realize you gave her what you could and if that wasn't enough for her, it's her loss. Let it out man, if you need to cry, go for it. It will make you feel rejuvenated and better. You do not want to live in the past. Just think about it, you might meet a potential person but might not even consider them because you're still hung up over your ex. Isn't that sad? If it makes you feel any better, my ex got together with a friend of mine one week after we broke up a while back. It stung like a b*tch to the point where I could not focus on my classes, and failed an exam as a result, because I only thought about her and what this "friend" where doing. Eventually, it got better over time and I learned my lesson; to not let someone else consume my thoughts. You are NOT alone! Unfriend her, and block her. Do this for YOU. Cheering for you brother, you can do this. You will be a much stronger individual once this storm passes. I know I am. Cheers. 2
Author McDonald Posted March 29, 2013 Author Posted March 29, 2013 its starting to feel weird getting to a place where I do not care much about it anymore. And in a way, it is getting scary. I know forsure, not going to lie, that the reason why I have these thoughts of her is because im afraid to let it go because thats all thats left and its the lat thing im used too. I feel like im at that point where I cant say thats it I dont want to think about it and then its done. Sadly, for some reason apart of me doesnt want to stop thinking about it. Even though it brings me empty pain. Its like im crazy and insane for letting this live on, but I cant help it. it kills me on the inside... it all does. No longer do I physically show it. so most people think im okay... but you guys are really the only ones that know how it has really been for me. And that hurts too that I have to hide this..
Author McDonald Posted March 29, 2013 Author Posted March 29, 2013 Wow last night was not that good. For some reason I got so angry when I was taking a shower. i was getting so angry at her for what she did... how she went to see this guy for new years two days after we broke up when she planned a trip to come see me. All of what she did started to come back. UGH I was getting so angry at her. I was getting so angry I had to do a set of my MMA workout by just punching a punching bag late at night. Ugh im still pretty angry right now too. It just upsets me how things like this, the breakup, arnt in my control. How theres nothing I can do about it... its really not fair for someone who put everything into the relationship.
cavalier99 Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 Hang in there bro! Your on the roller coaster of emotions. Weve all been there. Enjoy the ride! Rock on. Cav
RiceaRoni Posted March 29, 2013 Posted March 29, 2013 Wow last night was not that good. For some reason I got so angry when I was taking a shower. i was getting so angry at her for what she did... how she went to see this guy for new years two days after we broke up when she planned a trip to come see me. All of what she did started to come back. UGH I was getting so angry at her. I was getting so angry I had to do a set of my MMA workout by just punching a punching bag late at night. Ugh im still pretty angry right now too. It just upsets me how things like this, the breakup, arnt in my control. How theres nothing I can do about it... its really not fair for someone who put everything into the relationship. anger is healthy..anger is good to feel...just don't let it fester and build. Do something to release the anger like working out or running. It's okay to be angry at what she did to you, like I said just don't stay angry or stay bitter..let out that anger and then do something nice and productive for yourself
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