Dangraystyle Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 So I've been seeing my girlfriend for almost 4 months now. Things have been quite wonderful between us from the beginning and thoughts of me being love has been on my mind lately. The thing is this is my first proper relationship and the first person I've had sex with where as she has been with many people. I'm wondering if this is clouding my judgment on whether I'm actually in love or not. We are however so compatible and she has told me how much I mean to her and that I'm the greatest guy she's ever been with and shes never been in love. I'm 23 and she's 20. We were texting tonight and she was round a friends house when we discussing what her friends thought of me: Her: "One of them goes has he told you he loves you and my other friend was like **** that she's jus shagging him I was like jesus" Me: "It sounds like you're dealing with two very different people haha. See now this is the kind of juicy details I like to hear hmm I've never loved somebody before and if I did tell someone I loved them for the first time, it wouldn't be over text. I do care about you so much though :)" Her: "Haha they are very different! I wasn't hinting you need to say you did! I was just saying what they said lol. I know you do :)" Me: "I know you were. I wanted to say what I said though." Her: "We should go out for a meal" Me: "We should I'll look for different places." What do you make of this little information?
MidwestUSA Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 Śounds like you need to look for a nice place to eat. That's all. 3
Author Dangraystyle Posted March 20, 2013 Author Posted March 20, 2013 Śounds like you need to look for a nice place to eat. That's all. We've never had a meal before, weve never done anything particulary romantic orher than cinema, shopping, ice rink and a night at her place. It was a bit of a random comment. If it feels right I might tell her I love her during the meal.
KatZee Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 Gag. Stop it. Get off LS and go enjoy your gag-worthy relationship and your meal. 2
SJC2008 Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 Sounds like two normal people in their early 20's. 1
Soxfaninfl Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 Tell her you love her in a private place like your apartment or her apartment. I was a year younger than you when I first fell in love with my ex-wife. I told her after four months of dating. We were together for 13 years. It not something you should say unless your really mean it. I've only been in love once in my life time. 3
MidwestUSA Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 I don't think I could commit to love without having had a meal with him. What if his table manners were horrific? Dealbreaker! 3
Drseussgrrl Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 Just remember - nothing says I love you like splitting the check. 1
Jane2011 Posted March 21, 2013 Posted March 21, 2013 lol, it's funny that you've fallen in love without ever having had a meal together... 1
Author Dangraystyle Posted March 21, 2013 Author Posted March 21, 2013 Ok as I said before she went out last night to a concert then to a club. I woke up this morning to a text sent at 2:38am: "I'm in a club and its made me realise you mean so much to me. The guys in here are so horrible and your so nice. I'm never going to meet anyone like you Xxx" I'm getting feels all over. I've been thinking about all the things I like about her and there are so many. I think I'm falling in love. How has this happened!? It's going to become a LDR in a few months. It already takes 1 hour to see her at the moment but it will take 2 from July onwards.
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