dynamix321 Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 This begins at my crossfit gym when I introduced myself to a girl there. A month later we would find ourselves at this happy hour and made eye contact and from there hit off with good conversation. She pulls me to the side and starts telling me how she thought i was very attractive and when talking to her she already knew stuff about me guessing that she found out through other people so she must have been doing her research. I think she is amazingly attractive and thinking that we connected pretty well I got her number. Through messaging we planned a dinner date. Date 1: I thought we hit it off laughed, good conversation, couple drinks, good food, plenty of eye contact.... Wouldn't have changed a thing. After dinner we continued with conversation outside the restaurant and walked to her car after talking for another 15min. we started making out and maybe kissed for 10min at her car. It was getting late, it was a work night so we decided to part ways for the night. I receive a text telling me that I was a great kisser and she liked being pushed against the car... We texted during the week and she was pretty busy so nothing definitive was set but told her I we should get dinner or hang out or do something again (not exactly how i worded it). She offers that she is free sunday... Sunday rolls around and she pulls the "I forgot that I had to work today". She never offered a alternate time. Oh well, fine with me. I figure we'll set up another time. That next Wednesday rolls around and she says shes coming to my workout class. After the workout I was like hey "Want to grab a bite?" Date 2: She accepted grabbing something to eat after so afterwards were walking and she gets infront of me turns and starts making out with me. Again I think we had a good dinner, laughing, easy convo... Again more kissing. Now the problem.... Since that night she has always been busy when offering to hang out. Keep in mind I am not blowing her phone up or being clingy. My last offer to hang out I called and left a voicemail and told her "I had a great time and would love to see her again, to give me a call or text if she was interested in hanging out again." Received no response. I would have figured she would give me an alternate time or let me know when she isn't but nothing.... I don't mind to do some chasing but how do you chase when they don't respond to hanging out. So a week later still no response I see her at Crossfit on Friday and we made eye contact and it was like saying hi from across the room. Later in the workout she comes over and says hi and whats up and we talked for a little bit, but not mention on wanting to hang out again. I don't bring hanging out up or anything. Next day Saturday morning she as at the workout again.... Again she made it a point to come up say good morning and we worked out and talked a bit and that was it. I text her after the workout "So whats on your agenda for the rest of the day". Said she had to work for an hour, maybe a run, then going out that night. So I am really confused. Has she lost complete interest and just playing the friend card now? I didn't know what to think.... Later on i sent her a message being blunt. That I like her and was confused on where she may be. Didn't want to leap anywhere fast and just wanted to know whats on her mind. No response. That was a week ago.
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