chief87 Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 Girl I've been dating for about 2 months did the "fade away" thing to me.. real short with me on the phone, never contacted me, etc. Before that she told me she didn't know where her life was going, but liked me and still wanted to see me. Lately, I've been pretty much over her and was moving on. Until, she posted a pic of her and her ex on fbook. That pissed me off and sealed the deal that I was moving on. The next day, she messages me. It was small talk, but it confuses the hell out of me. I asked her if she was getting back together with him "her response ummm idk, probably not for awhile". It just seems like she is super confused and is handling things in a really immature way. I like this girl a lot but don't want to get hurt. What's your opinion? Move on or ride this out? I know which way I'm leaning, but need a push in the right direction.
Calvin's wagon Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 My advice: Move on, seriously. And don't become her "friend" who will hang out with her while she's "kind of" getting back together with her ex, while she pours out her problems to you. Do not let yourself be kept "on the hook"! Maybe I'm a bit too bitter atm, but my advice is to stay far far away from women (goes the same for the reverse) who are still so involved with exes ("not for a while"? so around your 1 year anniversary?). There's a good chance you'll get seriously hurt! I was in a position where the girl wasn't that obvious about her ex - got burned badly. Next time, I plan on there being no next time:) Anyway, good luck whatever you decide!
soccerrprp Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 Girl I've been dating for about 2 months did the "fade away" thing to me.. real short with me on the phone, never contacted me, etc. Before that she told me she didn't know where her life was going, but liked me and still wanted to see me. Lately, I've been pretty much over her and was moving on. Until, she posted a pic of her and her ex on fbook. That pissed me off and sealed the deal that I was moving on. The next day, she messages me. It was small talk, but it confuses the hell out of me. I asked her if she was getting back together with him "her response ummm idk, probably not for awhile". It just seems like she is super confused and is handling things in a really immature way. I like this girl a lot but don't want to get hurt. What's your opinion? Move on or ride this out? I know which way I'm leaning, but need a push in the right direction. That response should tell you all you need! Those are words that you are certainly NOT priority and she is telling you that she is keeping her ex open for reconciliation. You don't need that, of course! Move on...
Author chief87 Posted March 20, 2013 Author Posted March 20, 2013 My mind was already made up. just wanted to hear it from somebody else. "Livedandlearned" No, I'm not interested in talking about puppy dogs and ice cream or her shoulder to lean on when her ex treats her like ****. I've got enough friends, I don't need 1 more.
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