tietwisty Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 Hi, my girlfriend of 3 months broke up with me a week ago and I still have no idea what to do. Background: I met this girl in high school and were friends for about a year before taking the next step. We went to prom together and spent almost all of our time together during the summer. I went to college and tried the dating scene. I realized that every girl I was with reminded me of her and ended up confessing my feelings for her and she said she had them back and ended up dating me. We were happily together for 3 months and then she broke up with me out of nowhere. She first said she didn't want to date anyone then it was that she didn't have feelings for me, then she just wants to be friends and then she was confused. Come to find out that she has been having these weird sessions with friends where they get together and make out, dry hump etc each other in these weird large groups. I don't like it and have hung out with these people. She has become best friends with someone I have had a nasty relationship with as well. I've had a talk with her about these things and she seems to want to change this behavior, but she cried and yelled at me when I mentioned her change in her personality. I truly love this girl with all my heart and just want what's best for her, but I also want to be with her in the end. Is it even possible to be with her at this point or is she just a lost cause? I really need help figuring this out because I am left in a state of complete confusion. The last time we saw each other we made out twice. And when we first broke up, we pretty much spent the entire week with each other. I really have no idea what is going on. I'm on a no contact rule just with myself, without her knowing right now and have no plans to contact her. I feel that if I leave it be, that she'll come back but I'm moving on. I really love her and don't want to do that though.
Chi townD Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 Rule of thumb to remember when a girl breaks up with you. If she breaks up and one of the reasons is that she feels confused, it's because she feels confused about you and someone else. But, there shouldn't be any confusion because she already made her choice, it wasn't you because she's breaking up with YOU and not the other person she's "confused" about. Dude, there's someone else and she's choosen him or her over you. Time to heal and move on.
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