LMNO Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 I really dont know what to do to move past all of this. Unfortunately being stuck here in Afghanistan, there is nothing but solitude and time to think. My sons mother bailed on me a few months back, and is now playing house with my son and some other guy. She consistenly makes it a point to rub it in, and acts as if she is doing all she can to replace me in my sons life. She is the love of my life, and I really cant see myself being with anybody but her. I have tried in the past, and other women have only made me miss and want her more. Weve broken up numerous times throughout the last 10 years, although this time it seems its for good. Any ideas on how to get her back? It obviously wont happen while I am here, and I have roughly 4 months to go before I'm home. Being stuck in this place with no release and no one to talk to is mentally breaking me down to a level I never could have imagined. Any thoughts and or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
destroyed4sho Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 Well like you said, you cant do anything now. The only thing you can do is go NC and only contact her for child related reasons. Dont let her get to you. Things will get better as long as you remain NC...ITS THE ONLY WAY OUT.
destroyed4sho Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 Dont put much hope in getting her back..it will only keep you in darkness for a long time.
Chi townD Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 Talk to the chaplain. Your in a place that you need to keep your head screwed on straight. Chaps are also trained in talking to troops about others things than God. It may help.
The Tallest One Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 Do you really want her back? And if yes, what makes you think this cycle of breaking up and getting back together will change? Maybe it's broken and isn't fixable? I'm not trying to be a jerk, just that I've just come out of a relationship that consisted of numerous breakups and it really isn't worth it in the end! Your self worth and peace of mind is more important! You deserve a woman who will fight for you and not keep breaking it off! You have to want more for your life and know that there is someone better out there for you even though at this moment the thought of someone else has no appeal!
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