Ariesmum Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 Ok so we have been together 4 1/2 years married for 1 1/2 with two children under the age of three. Husband is 28 and I'm 7 years younger. I resent him because I feel like I'm constantly fixing him. He is constantly out of work so I never have any money and if I do he asks to buy computer games and consoles. He does nothing for the kids or around the house. Constantly asks me to get him drinks instead of himself getting up. I have to rent a granny flat off my mother just to have a roof over my babies heads. I just feel like he is a failure as a person he has no license to drive a car no qualifications to help his job search. He has recently asked to go do a photography diploma for a year full time so no working and expects me just to support him because it will mean a job in a years time. How do I support him? I feel like I hate him and we would be better off without him but he won't leave and the one time we got close enough to talking divorce I cried and said no. I'm so sick of waiting and relying on him to make our lives better because he will not let me work because he doesn't want to look after our kids.
Grumpybutfun Posted March 21, 2013 Posted March 21, 2013 Only you can make your life and the lives of your children better. You are an adult so he shouldn't have the power to "let" you do anything. Get some support around you from your family and friends and try to salvage your life. This is the only one you get so do not waste it embroiled in a marriage which is unequal and unbalanced. Good luck, Grumps 1
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