rosterx Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 So we're both seniors in highschool and we have a class together every other day. We sat at the same table so we talked a lot and we were immediately attracted to one another. We started texting and eventually planned a date. This girl has a triple c addiction and is not the sharpest tool in the shed by any means, but she's so cheerful and kind and i feel like helping her rid her addiction. I sort of have trouble talking to her because of the difference in intellect but i dont want to give up just because of that. I'm kind of a stoner so we relate with drugs at least. When I finally got to hang out with her, i took her to a nice place on the top of a hill where we could blaze and talk. While we were in the car, we talked a lot and had smooth conversation. After this point, everything went down hill. First off, she didn't know her limit on blazing so she ended up getting to high and got a little paranoid. She was trying really hard to act chill but i could tell she was uncomfortable. To make everything worse, my group of friends showed up at random and crashed our date. They came to me and posted up to blaze right there with us. I knew i had to get us out of there so we left and went to grab a bite to eat. It was a silent car ride with awkward little talks here and there. Getting the food and dropping her off was also quite silent but i felt like it wasnt as awkward as it could have been casue we were both high. After this event, I had a new found nervousness around her. I still talked to her well, but i stopped making progress. Our texting wasn't as smiley-filled and it seemed like she was slowly becoming less responsive. I decided to ask her for another date. She first said that it depends if her mom gets mad at her for whatever reason, but a couple hours later she was ready to plan the date. We decided on a movie and she insisted on taking triple c's while with me. I wasn't happy with that and i made clear i wanted to be able to communicate with her. She assured me it would be fine and we settled on meeting the next day. The next morning, she texts me a couple hours in advance saying her mom was mad at her and that she was really really sorry. I said it was all good and that was that. I saw her in class the next day but we had new seats now, so i couldn't talk to her until we had to go to the computer lab. She walked over towards me and kind of stood around rather than walking ahead so i figured she wanted me to talk to her. We walked and talked for a couple minutes before another guy says something to her and suddenly shes walking next to him and talking about whatever he mentioned. We get to the computer lab and she goes and sits next to him, not so much as looking at me. I texted her once since then with a simple "Hey ___ :-)". Never got a response. I'm not sure if shes trying to make me jealous or if she simply lost interest. What should i do to find out and get her back?
ja123 Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 Don't bother with people who aren't that interested in you. It isn't good for your self-esteem. Cultivate some other options.
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