YellowLioness Posted September 9, 2004 Posted September 9, 2004 I'm flashing you all right now, you just can't see it. I'm wiggling my jumblies in cyberspace just to piss the prudes off. mwahahahah!
EC Posted September 9, 2004 Posted September 9, 2004 wiggling my jumblies hahahahahaha send me a picture I'll send you mine.... jkjkjkjkjk lol
YellowLioness Posted September 9, 2004 Posted September 9, 2004 Just teasing! I bet they wonder where we get the stuff we say, though. I bet right now Beth is thinking, "Jumblies???" ANYWAY back to the thread before I get reported and spanked, Honesty is right. If it makes you uncomfortable, then its wrong. Relationships really can't be generalized because every one is different. WE all have things we're cool with, and things we hate. For instance, I can't stand dirt, but I can stand clutter. A big part of that is respecting some one elses dislikes and likes, and acting accordingly. This especially relates to your situation. She should respect your wishes and not show her body to other men, even if it is only a picture over the net. If she feels like you are restricting her freedom by not letting her show her boobs off, then maybe you should find someone who is less of an exhibitionist.
tiki Posted September 9, 2004 Posted September 9, 2004 Originally posted by YellowLioness back to the thread before I get reported and spanked Spanked? Did somebody say spanked?! Sign me up! LOL
EC Posted September 9, 2004 Posted September 9, 2004 TWO WEEKS PEOPLE....can we not use words like spanked...Im dying ova here...
YellowLioness Posted September 9, 2004 Posted September 9, 2004 Spanked? Did somebody say spanked?! Sign me up! LOL Yeah... I also enjoy a good spanking every once and again!
Author Infusion Posted September 9, 2004 Author Posted September 9, 2004 well, I just talked to her and asked her to do me a favour- to not send her male friend those topless pics. She said 'fine, whatever" and agreed to not send them. There were pics she took which were not topless, those were the ones she sent already before I had a chance to ask. However, I asked her if any of the topless pics were sent and she replied 'no'. Ok, so she didn't send any topless pics, but she DID send pics where her upper half was not clothed but was covered up with her hands. I dunno, i found out in time last night, but who knows if something similar will happen in the future.. something that i wouldn't find out about till weeks afterwards? What do you guys think?
honey2005 Posted September 9, 2004 Posted September 9, 2004 I don't think she's worth your time. She has a boyfriend and she's sending pictures of herself naked to other guys? Hello, does that not sound completely WRONG to you? And what's worse is she acted like you shouldn't care at all. I would be totally p55ed off if my bf was sending naked pictures to girls (or even guys!).
Author Infusion Posted September 9, 2004 Author Posted September 9, 2004 That reminds me of something she told me last night. In an effort to defend her position, she told me it shouldn't matter because it wasn't like she was prostituting herself to him. Later she also added that she loves her friends and that she wants to be perfect to them. A long time ago she used to tell me that she'll do anything to make her friends happy, i guess struck me right in the face now. Is there any logic in the way she thinks? Shouldn't there be boundaries set for a normal friendship? Time and time again I've tried but I simply cannot understand why she thinks that way.
Fayebelle Posted September 9, 2004 Posted September 9, 2004 You won't understand. You have different mindframes on this one. You just have to decide whether or not it is a deal breaker for you.
Author Infusion Posted September 9, 2004 Author Posted September 9, 2004 Would you consider that a resolution to this problem? The fact that she did not proceeded to send those pics to him? I really do love her, but she's an awfully weird girl and never ceases to bring surprises to me. There were times when she would absolutely not care about anything, and that has happened on a few occassions when we got together. What I mean is, she would tell me that she isn't upset or mad, but would be completely insensitive about everything she says to me. The one big thing about her is her insensitivity, when she doesn't care, she really doens't care. period. Although I dont know if I should think of her as very different than other people and overlook those things, since she was adopted and unfortunately cannot get along with her parents. Both her parents are weird people in their own way, and I can safely say this because I've met them. When I would call on the phone sometimes, her dad would yell loudly in the background "Oh just hang up, why do you care?". On top of that, all her friends (with the exception of two), hate me... although I truly haven't met any of them, except exchanging hello and goodbyes sometimes. I know she loves me because despite efforts from her friends to separate us, she wouldn't yield. Does this make the problem at hand any different?
Fayebelle Posted September 9, 2004 Posted September 9, 2004 It sounds like more than anything you feel sorry for this girl. You may be interested b/c she keeps you guessing- but is it cool that you have to guess whether you are happy or not? Maybe it is time for you to take a break- see if there is someone closer to you that you can relate to better. Ultimately it is your decision - but going from the info you have provided- it doesn't seem like this relationship is very happy, healthy or rewarding.
sami Posted September 9, 2004 Posted September 9, 2004 You are not in need of anyone's thoughts. You need to take actions poor fellow. Be man enough and stand for your rights.
FolderWife Posted September 10, 2004 Posted September 10, 2004 Ask her to send you the topless photos.
Author Infusion Posted September 10, 2004 Author Posted September 10, 2004 Originally posted by Monday Ask her to send you the topless photos. I asked her to send them to me that night, to see if she would give me them at all, and because I wanted to know if she was just playing a joke on me. She sent them after i asked, and yes, there were a few topless pics...
manofmystrey Posted September 10, 2004 Posted September 10, 2004 dude this girl is playing u like a violin. she tells u what u want to hear. The fact she told u she would do anything to make firends happy, then she tells u that she is sending pics to this guy naked and then she tells with what seem like attitude that she wont. she more then likely has sent the pics and told u what u wanted to hear. Think about she is 8 hours away and u dont know the people she is friends with and she feels pretty comfratable with the fact that there is no way u will find out. Let me ask u this how would she react if she found ur female friend naked in a pic in ur email. Lets say for arguments sake she is comfy with the pics of him naked cause she is willing to send them to u, would she be comfy seeing him naked in real life? You seem like a nice enough guy, but could do so much better then a girl that is will to show her self naked to a male friend. And if she is defending it by saying he is bi, the last time i checed that ment u liked both men and woman........ Plus as ur gf she should consider how she would feel if u were out there sending every girl u know a pic of ur wang.
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