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He asked me if i was interested in having a boyfriend, i said no and now he's cold?

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He's very cold and distant towards me now and i just don't understand it. I mean i would like to get to know him and things of that nature but i don't know if i should even entertain the idea of that because now it seems like he don't want to be bothered. I mean i give him signs like stare at him and follow him(not in a stalkerish kind of way)and he just looks the other way or moves away from me like wtf. Just because i said i'm not looking for a bf doesn't mean i'm not open to getting to know him.

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He was just looking for a relationship, since you don't want one he doesn't see the point of talking to you; he isn't looking for another friend

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That doesn't make any sense. He doesn't know me. Why would he want a relationship with a random person?

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That doesn't make any sense. He doesn't know me. Why would he want a relationship with a random person?

 

You sound like a female version of PhillyDude, lol.

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Rejection hurts. You told him no, he wants to move on.

 

If you aren't interested in dating him, then you should let him move on.

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If you don't know each other that well, I'm sure he was asking if you were interested in a relationship in general, not necessarily with him. It's a valid question. And if he is interested in a relationship - again, in general, and not necessarily with you - it makes sense that he would assume you two aren't on the same page and focus on finding someone who wants the same thing. If you are interested in getting to know him, put on your big girl panties and tell him that.

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I changed my mind. I am interested in dating him

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SJC2008 Established Member

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That doesn't make any sense. He doesn't know me. Why would he want a relationship with a random person?

 

Yes it does make sense and with all due respect you're not making sense. He didn't ask to be your BF, he asked you if you want a BF. It doesn't mean he's foaming at the mouth to jump into a relationship with a woman he doesn't knonw. It means he's interested and wants to know if you have the same GOAL as him, a relationshp, so yall could date and see if something blossoms. You don't have the same goal, case closed, on to other women.

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I changed my mind. I am interested in dating him

 

:lmao: :lmao: :lmao:

 

This can't be life.

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So if I am understanding this correctly, he asked you out or showed some sort of interest and you said no because you were not interested. Then for whatever reason you decided that you were interested and now he's not? Sorry to say this, but you blew it with him. I don't know why you changed your mind in between then, but you said no and now he's not interested in being your friend anymore. You'll know better next time.

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:lmao: :lmao: :lmao:

 

This can't be life.

 

Now I'm CERTAIN it's PhillyDude's other personality.

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