zetkin Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 How crazy is this? I was on a date with a guy that I didn't like, and I was honest and explained him this. So then we were still talking. I was a bit sad too, cause I had quite a lot of unsuccessful experiences, and I told him that. And then he said he knows someone who I might like. I said he didn't have to do that, but his answer was something like - just because i'm not interesting to you, doesn't mean you have to go empty handed. I don't know why but in the end I told him he can give my number to the guy.
Object_a Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 I don't see what the problem is here. I think it's kind of cool that the guy was able to be a grown-up about you not liking him. Putting you in touch with someone else is a nice gesture IMO. 1
MrCastle Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 That's crazy. I don't know what to say about the man other than I definitely would not have handled it the same. Write your number on a bathroom stall, sure. Give it to the creepiest guy I could find, maybe. But give it to someone who I think you'd legit hit it off with? Crazy. I'm sure that's a rarity.
neveragain34 Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 I've done that before! I went out with a guy I did not like at all, but set him up with one of my friends and they hit it off! Give it a shot; you never know what could come of it! 1
grkBoy Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 How crazy is this? I was on a date with a guy that I didn't like, and I was honest and explained him this. So then we were still talking. I was a bit sad too, cause I had quite a lot of unsuccessful experiences, and I told him that. And then he said he knows someone who I might like. I said he didn't have to do that, but his answer was something like - just because i'm not interesting to you, doesn't mean you have to go empty handed. I don't know why but in the end I told him he can give my number to the guy. What you have there is a real friend. Hopefully you'll return the favor if you know of single women who might be into him. I know if it were me, I'd try doing that too. Most of the reason is we went maybe on one date, you were honest and respectful to me, and thus you earned my respect. If I'm carrying some deep lust, then I might have trouble...but I think if there isn't a deep lust and I knew a guy you might like, I'd see if you would be interested in meeting him. Like I said, hopefully you'll return the favor if you know of single women who might be into him.
Estate Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 How crazy is this? I was on a date with a guy that I didn't like, and I was honest and explained him this. So then we were still talking. I was a bit sad too, cause I had quite a lot of unsuccessful experiences, and I told him that. And then he said he knows someone who I might like. I said he didn't have to do that, but his answer was something like - just because i'm not interesting to you, doesn't mean you have to go empty handed. I don't know why but in the end I told him he can give my number to the guy. He sounds like a cool and level headed guy to me. It must have been pretty blunt of you to come right out and say to him on the date you didn't like him... 99% of guys on this board would have probably cussed you out of it then posted a big rant about how all women are evil... ... this guy didn't. He kept his head, he probably is a good guy with other options, if you don't want him, it won't phase him, why not set you up with a friend. I don't get all the negativity. He did what 99% of guys wouldn't and kept a real level head and acted really well after a pretty blunt rejection. Well done him! 2
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