lovecrazy Posted September 9, 2004 Posted September 9, 2004 Hello everyone, Well I'm in a very confusing situation. Or maybe I’m just being a drama queen, anyhow I need help!! I met a guy almost 2yrs ago. He came into town with one of my best friends. When we met, we really hit it off. We have been friends every since. At first we didn’t really keep in touch that much. I mean I would call him once a month or so. And we would email each other sometimes. Then at the beginning of this year, we didn’t talk at all for about 3months. Well one day he called again and we’ve been talking on the phone often since. He started calling once a week or so. In June, he came to visit (he lives 10hrs away). After his visit, he started calling me more. We’d talk 3-4 times a week. And I started falling for him. I liked him since we met, but now more since we’ve been talking so much. I have never told him how I feel, though he knows because our mutual friend told him. Even after that, he kept calling. And I saw some signals like he liked me too, though he hasn’t said anything. 1 wk ago, I offered to go visit so we could see each other. I basically told him, I wanted to see him. He sounded enthusiastic about it and said he was really looking forward to it. But now he hasn’t called me. I’ve sent a couple of text messages and still no answer. What is going on?? Any advise anyone? I’ve been thinking about calling him but I don’t know. I just feel like he should’ve called by now especially since I’m suppose to be going over there tomorrow!! What should I do?
Scott S Posted September 9, 2004 Posted September 9, 2004 Maybe he's been busy. Maybe he hasn't received your text messages. Why don't you call him, then? Tell him what time you expect to arrive, & how much you can't wait to see him. This is also in LDR.
Author lovecrazy Posted September 9, 2004 Author Posted September 9, 2004 No, he's not seeing anybody else?
Author lovecrazy Posted September 9, 2004 Author Posted September 9, 2004 scott, You don't think it'll be too much for me to call him?
Scott S Posted September 9, 2004 Posted September 9, 2004 You don't think it'll be too much for me to call him? Not at all. Tell him what time you plan to arrive, & how much you're looking forward to spending time with him this weekend. When my wife & I were engaged, we spent about 15 months in a long-distance relationship (approx 90 miles apart) before I managed to find employment in the city where we live now. I spent weekends with her, drove a lot, & had some long-distance phone bills.
Author lovecrazy Posted September 10, 2004 Author Posted September 10, 2004 well i have great news!! He called me yesterday. I was planning on calling him, but i didn't have to. He said he was sorry he hadn't called, he had just been really busy and the plans for the weekend are still good.
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