Author fortyninethousand322 Posted April 29, 2013 Author Posted April 29, 2013 When that happens to me I say something like "well I'm not looking for a pen pal..." and see what happens. Usually what happens is that I don't hear back, but since I wasn't kidding about not looking for a pen pal I don't mind too much. If you want to keep talking I suggest just changing the subject and message her through the site for a few more days, then bring up the topic of phone numbers or going on a date and see what happens. Yeah. It's not often that I get to this stage of conversation online with a woman, which is why I don't want to just write her off. Most of what happens now is I send a message, the girl responds, then I write back, but then never hear back. Drives me nuts.
edgygirl Posted April 29, 2013 Posted April 29, 2013 Not sure how to say this but I feel that adding someone on facebook before being more intimate is an invasion of privacy. I don't want a stranger stalking on my life. It does feel juvenile as another poster said. I prefer good old phone number or gchat where we can exchange ideas and get to know each other first.
Author fortyninethousand322 Posted April 29, 2013 Author Posted April 29, 2013 Not sure how to say this but I feel that adding someone on facebook before being more intimate is an invasion of privacy. I don't want a stranger stalking on my life. It does feel juvenile as another poster said. I prefer good old phone number or gchat where we can exchange ideas and get to know each other first. Yeah I can see that. I'd prefer the phone, but lots of women are hesitant to give me their phone number. So, I don't know how to make them more comfortable...
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