Sososad Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 So my ex decides to mail me this Morning to inform me she's sleeping with other guys?!? Like c'mon what the hell is going on I've not asked and specifically said I don't want to hear or see!! What the hell goes through there mind
Chi townD Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 Call your service provider and have that number blocked. Or change your phone number, which ever one is easier. She did that to get a rise out of you and to get you talking to her again. That's just frickin cruel. How the hell do you text something like that? "HEY! Guess what! I just got done screwing some dude!"
TaraMaiden Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 So... you STILL haven't blocked her? Why read the email at all? Why not just dump it? Why not change your email address? I changed my email address, because I was getting waaaay too much spam mail, and being harassed by sales people. So I implemented an automated reply, "This email box is no longer active. Mail to this address will not be accepted." I told all my GOOD contacts of my new address. Caused me no problems whatsoever. Changed my mobile 'phone number too. So.... sorry, what's the problem, again? 1
Author Sososad Posted March 20, 2013 Author Posted March 20, 2013 Well I sent a text last night Saying We're broke up nearly 2 months now I'm starting to feel good again and live life as are you I'm asking you to not contact me via text , email or whatever I have absolutely nothing in the world to say to you . Respect my wishes and leave me alone . So guess that's how it ended for me ! Mistake ???
robaday Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 I would have replied "what do you want a medal?" or "im happy your sleeping with other guys it means you wont have to contact me anymore" 1
asdfasdf1234 Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 Well I sent a text last night Saying We're broke up nearly 2 months now I'm starting to feel good again and live life as are you I'm asking you to not contact me via text , email or whatever I have absolutely nothing in the world to say to you . Respect my wishes and leave me alone . So guess that's how it ended for me ! Mistake ??? Yes. You shouldn't have said anything. Oh well! Just move on and for God's sake NC!!!!!!
TaraMaiden Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 Well I sent a text last night Saying We're broke up nearly 2 months now I'm starting to feel good again and live life as are you I'm asking you to not contact me via text , email or whatever I have absolutely nothing in the world to say to you . Respect my wishes and leave me alone . So guess that's how it ended for me ! Mistake ??? Yeah. Massive. Why don't people PHUKKING LISTEN - ??!? :mad: NOW: BLOCK HER. DELETE. CHANGE EMAIL ADDRESS!! CHANGE 'PHONE NUMBER!! DO - IT!!!! 1
Darren Steez Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 Yeah. Massive. Why don't people PHUKKING LISTEN - ??!? :mad: NOW: BLOCK HER. DELETE. CHANGE EMAIL ADDRESS!! CHANGE 'PHONE NUMBER!! DO - IT!!!! He's a drama queen. Doesn't follow advice and asks silly questions like I opened her text and sent one..mistake? 1
Chi townD Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 Well I sent a text last night Saying We're broke up nearly 2 months now I'm starting to feel good again and live life as are you I'm asking you to not contact me via text , email or whatever I have absolutely nothing in the world to say to you . Respect my wishes and leave me alone . So guess that's how it ended for me ! Mistake ??? Uh.....YEAH!!! MISTAKE! She sent that text to you to get a rise out of you. To get you to respond to her. And you gave her EXACTLY what she wanted. She wanted to pull on the leash to make sure the dog was still there. And guess what. WOOF!!! WOOF!!!
js1967 Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 Im sorry this happened. Its clear to me, block everything, don't leave the door cracked a bit. Lord knows what the real reason is why she would do that too you, but I am pretty positive it was to get some sort of reaction whether its good or bad. Im slowly learning that Totally ignoring is pretty powerful, but blocking so there is no possible way sends the most powerful message you can. Good luck with this
Author Sososad Posted March 20, 2013 Author Posted March 20, 2013 Thanks for the advice I guess I got what I wanted no reply . So yes I can now start trying to move forward and yes you are all right Breaking no contact sucks either way and for whatever reasons !
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