dkk1234 Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 Due to my impulsive nature and quick temper, my ex finally had enough and said she needs space after our two-year relationship. I know this break is all my fault. I tend to say hurtful things when I am angry. I know this is a problem that I need to fix.We have argued over this multiple times already, and each time I promise to let my anger go for the moment. She forgave me more than one time, and sadly I went on repeating the same mistake. As a result, I understand why she wanted a break. We never had a big break like this. It has been two weeks since we talked on the phone. I really miss her. I texted her two nights ago asking if she still wants to talk and work things out in two weeks. She responded with "We will see." I don't understand what her comment means. Does her comment imply that we might have a possibility of talking again? If not, why not just be straightforward and tell me no so I can move on? Last night I texted her again saying that I miss her. I got not response. As a result, I felt insecure and asked her again if she still wants to work things out or move on. She messaged me back today saying "Stop texting those kind of message. You are still doing the same thing. When I don't get the response you want you do that." I do not understand why she is trying to avoid this question. I really don't like the fact that she is controlling the relationship. It makes me feel like a little boy being string along. Should I give her more space and stop texting her until she contacts me?
destroyed4sho Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 She wants to string you along in case her new single life doesnt work out. She wants to keep you in her backpocket. Its over. Do not contact her...she will contact you when she os ready to spew more crap your way. Her reply is very selfish probably a theme in your relationship.
Chi townD Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 Dude, Taking a break = breaking up. Don't kid yourself. She's done. She ended it with you. So, time to learn from your mistakes and move on. On the upside. You realized what you did wrong in the relationship. And the first step in fixing a problem is recongizing that there is a problem. I strongly urge you to seek out individual Counseling and see about taking an anger management course to get a handle on that temper. Will this help you get her back? NOPE!! But, you can apply what you've learned as what NOT to do for your next relationship.
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