singme2sleep Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 (edited) Many of us are on here asking such questions like: "When will the pain go away?" "Will they come back?" "Is there hope?" "Does my ex still love me?" Etc... But we can only give each other opinions. None of us can predict the future and none of us are inside the heads of other people's ex's. Yes, we all have life experience to help one another, however anything is possible! Some of us might be healed next week, some of us might get our ex's back and some of us might meet somebody new tomorrow. The unpredictability of life is what makes it exciting. I wasn't even looking for love when I met my current ex, so like I said, anything is possible! Edited March 19, 2013 by singme2sleep 1
MovingOn2013 Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 Many of us are on here asking such questions like: "When will the pain go away?" "Will they come back?" "Is there hope?" "Does my ex still love me?" Etc... But we can only give each other opinions. None of us can predict the future and none of us are inside the heads of other people's ex's. Yes, we all have life experience to help one another, however anything is possible! Some of us might be healed next week, some of us might get our ex's back and some of us might meet somebody new tomorrow. The unpredictability of life is what makes it exciting. I wasn't even looking for love when I met my current ex, so like I said, anything is possible! Thing's do get better though. Never thought I would say that, but you do Being abandoned is the worst, but helps healing a lot easier in the end (had weird messages) But hopefully there over and done with now 1
Minneloa Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 Of course this is true. But so often on these forums heartbroken people ask these questions as a way to shield themselves from reality. This is their right, and understandable, yet it can seriously delay their healing process by clinging to false hope. Yes, reconciliations do happen, but banking on one isn't healthy. So when I see these questions, I worry that the person in question is only delaying the inevitable of facing their pain and grieving their loss. 2
Author singme2sleep Posted March 19, 2013 Author Posted March 19, 2013 We ask these types of questions for small bits of reassurances I guess. 2
Wabisabi Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 Sometimes we ask these questions to hear what others who went through similar experiences have to say so that we feel less lonely in our breakup battle. 1
adb22 Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 I think we all know that no one on this board has a definite answer, because obviously lol...We just like the idea of venting, because it makes us feel relieved in a sense. 1
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