kdonahue Posted September 9, 2004 Posted September 9, 2004 I have just broken up with my girlfriend of 1.5 years... the problem being I am still very much in love with her and the breakup was not because of a fight, I have just entered college as a freshman and she has too 30 minutes away, she arrived at college just one week before me and when i got up to college i diden't get to see her for a few days. so we had not seen each other for about a week and a half. no big deal, then when i saw her again she was not excited to see me at all, she hardly showed any affection. before the week and a half we had been apart for longer and never had a problem. just last night we broke up... well sort of, i asked her to go see a doctor because i felt she owed it to us, rather than just tossing away a year and a half and she dosent even know why "she wants to break up". I love this girl more than anything on earth, i will do anything to keep this relationship alive and fix whatever problems we have... we never fought or had a falling out. I cant understand why she would do this... Please Help...
Merin Posted September 9, 2004 Posted September 9, 2004 Well that sucks, and i'm sorry:( Ya know, I don't think your girl needs to go and see a doctor. I don't think that she really doesn't know why she wants to break up, I think she just doesn't want to tell you the reason. The two of you have been dating since high school and are now starting college and while some high school romances do stay on course and work out in the end of things, it isn't common. The reason being, that ppl go to different schools, or in different states. They begin to met new ppl and have new experiences. You start to grow and change as a person. I realize it had only been a week since the two of you had seen one another, but if I was going to make a guess on things, it would be my guess your girl got to her college and started having second thoughts if she could or wanted to remain in an exclusive relationship she has had since high school, OR if right now she wants to find herself, met new ppl and explore what else is out there.
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