Rocky road Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 sorry been blowing up the board going thru dark times. What does it mean when you have I force an issue and begin with "i dont know," then "i need a break" and then "i need space." This woman never said the words I am breaking up with you and I ultimately broke up with myself over this 5 year relationship. Was she just too coward or indecisive to do it on her own? Or was she waiting to be in another state to make it easier to do by phone? This was so cruel.
OwlSoul Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 M. It's not her fault, nor yours. Yeah, it more or less means the break-up. She is trying to win some time for both of you. Getting some space doesn't yet mean that you two are officially broken up, but she is free to see other people. So, an advise, act like you guys are broken up. Try to get emotionally unattached to her as soon as possible, forcus on yourself. I believe, this can really help you. I am in the same situation as you are. So far things seem to be working out better, since I was like 'Meh, I'll keep doing what I was doing, but even more'. I started getting more organized and valuing things accroding to what they'll give to my self-confidence.
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