dkk1234 Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 Due to my impulsive nature and quick temper, my ex finally had enough and said she needs space after our two-year relationship. I know this break is all my fault. I tend to say hurtful things when I am angry. I know this is a problem that I need to fix. It has been two weeks since we talked on the phone. I really miss her. I texted her last night asking if she still wants to talk and work things out in two weeks. She responded with "We will see. I don't know....I'll think about it." I don't understand what her comment means. Does her comment imply that we might have a possibility of talking again? If not, why not just be straightforward and tell me no so I can move on?
TigerCub Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 She wrote what she wrote probably because she doesn't know if she wants to work it out - it's a confused answer. You said that you say hurtful things when you are angry- maybe she's conflicted because although she may care for you, you still hurt her and hurt her pride and she doesn't want to be a doormat.
asdfasdf1234 Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 Due to my impulsive nature and quick temper, my ex finally had enough and said she needs space after our two-year relationship. I know this break is all my fault. I tend to say hurtful things when I am angry. I know this is a problem that I need to fix. It has been two weeks since we talked on the phone. I really miss her. I texted her last night asking if she still wants to talk and work things out in two weeks. She responded with "We will see. I don't know....I'll think about it." I don't understand what her comment means. Does her comment imply that we might have a possibility of talking again? If not, why not just be straightforward and tell me no so I can move on? It means just that. Either that or she wants to keep you on a leash while she finds new dick. Either way.... STOP contacting her. Leave her be. That is your ONLY chance. 1
OwlSoul Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 It means just that. Either that or she wants to keep you on a leash while she finds new dick. Either way.... STOP contacting her. Leave her be. That is your ONLY chance. Agree. Although, do not take everything as only your own fault. Usually people call dumpers as monsters, however, it is both partner's thing which makes one getting distanced and fell out of love. Anger is typical reaction of the one who loves more and gets less love in responce, I think. It is not the issue by itself, probably, but the fact that you're trying to control your partner. So better to spend time on focusing on yourself.
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