BLo7687 Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 ...I miss having someone again. Does anyone feel this way? At least I don't think I miss him. Just miss the thought of being in a relationship again. Having someone to talk to everyday, go to the movies/dinner with, someone to kiss, cuddle, and be intimate with. Just having someone consistent again. It's been 2/3 months since the BU. Although I didn't think he was the one, he's already moved on to someone else he met on a dating website. He's quick to fill the void and can't be alone for more than 2 min. But whatever, I'm basically at peace with it. I've hung out with guys, kissed a couple, and even did the whole rebounding thing with a friend for a few weeks. But nothing that sparks an interest or worth dating. One thing I liked about my ex is that he pleased me mentally and emotionally. I feel like I'm not going to have that with anyone for awhile. But I have to realize every guy is going to be different. I'm not the type to jump from relationship to relationship. I like to take my time, get to know someone, and eventually trust the person before jumping into something quick. And it doesn't help that I'm picky with guys or who I get into a relationship with. And I'm not resulting into any dating websites either. Not that there's anything wrong with that but I'd rather meet someone naturally. I guess it's all about timing. I just feel like the loneliness is starting to kick in now...
OwlSoul Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 Oh, this is what people always think when they're just broken-up.
RiceaRoni Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 You're just used to being in a relationship is all haha When a BU happens, the routine breaks as well. So you're used to being intimate, cuddling, kissing, etc. But as time moves onward you will get used to the routine of being single again It's a hard routine to transition to, but it'll happen. It's actually fun being single if you give it the chance. You learn about yourself again, you can date freely and just for fun with no commitments, no stress, no arguing. Just until you think you are fully ready to go for another new relationship with someone 2
h3braica Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 we're on the same boat. i miss being in a relationship too. but i'm afraid of getting hurt again by jumping to a new relationship that fast. been 3 months of BU and not fully healed.
RiceaRoni Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 we're on the same boat. i miss being in a relationship too. but i'm afraid of getting hurt again by jumping to a new relationship that fast. been 3 months of BU and not fully healed. I know what you mean.. In the meantime; heal, enjoy the single life for a bit, and then once you can't hurt anymore; date again 1
Damaged23 Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 I think I'm on the same boat. I'm not sure if I miss him, or what I had with him (company, intimacy, etc) When my ex and I were on good terms we were perfect, everything was amazing, but when we were in bad, it was BAD. So now, i'm left here, all by myself, not knowing what to do with my time, or life. It's hard getting used to being single :/
Keenly Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 I'm with you, yesterday and today have really gotten me down. I miss the intimacy, and more importantly, the feeling of being desired. I enjoyed waking up to text messages, feeling that she actually wanted to talk to me and some one missed me when I wasn't around. I don't miss her, I miss that.
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