mtnbiker3000 Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 "Why is your ex so special? Did they leave you for JLo or something? Do they fart pourpriar? Your ex isn't that special. Especially if they left you for another person" Yes, this has been instrumental for me!!! Take them off the pedestal. Do not remember them in a romanticized light. Remember the less than great things about them. It helps!!!
Compromize Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 FB is the devil! Not just for BU's but in general! It causes waaaay more harm than good in most cases. Cheating (emotional or physical), people re-connecting with old loves (and leaving their current loves) flirting, all kinds of crap. I deleted mine years ago. Well not really deleted since you can't actually truly delete it but not going back. I don't know how anyone can have FB and see their ex and how they are doing or any posts or anything. I would psychoanalyze even the littlest thing my ex posted/said/liked if I had access to it and it would reset my moving on counter to 0 every time! Or give me false hope until it was brutally crushed! For everyone going through a breakup (well all of us dumpees) block your ex, any of their friends, anyone remotely connected with them. Better yet, just stay off of FB. I try my best to be strong when I do see her. I was sitting in class earlier today and I thought I heard her voice. She has a pretty unique voice (not sure if it's in a good way or not honestly) and I swear my heart just stopped. I was staring out into the hallway praying that she wouldn't walk by. She didn't, and I'm not even sure if it was her but I was freaking out. Dude my heart starts thumping in my chest when I see a car that might be hers. So I know how you feel, I don't know what I would do if I ran into my ex. Try to hold my head high a smile, but feeling my heart shatter into pieces and hope she couldn't see my pain.
mtnbiker3000 Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 FB is the devil! Not just for BU's but in general! It causes waaaay more harm than good in most cases. Cheating (emotional or physical), people re-connecting with old loves (and leaving their current loves) flirting, all kinds of crap. I deleted mine years ago. Well not really deleted since you can't actually truly delete it but not going back. Dude my heart starts thumping in my chest when I see a car that might be hers. So I know how you feel, I don't know what I would do if I ran into my ex. Try to hold my head high a smile, but feeling my heart shatter into pieces and hope she couldn't see my pain. Yup. No FB. No way. Thank goodness I never got into this crap. I would be going absolutely nuts if I had it. I Know the ex uses it constantly, so would just be the end of me. No FB. No way And I know what you mean about the ex's car. Problem is, there are so many of the exact car rolling around this town. Always makes my heart sink when I see one
misswillow Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 I totally agree about FB. I deactivated my account before our breakup, just because I thought it was a time-waste and kind of annoying. And I'm sure now I'll never reactivate it b/c there are pictures there of us that I can't deal with looking at. And having to see whether my ex unfriended me, took out pictures down, etc would just kill me. I try my very, very best to not do things that I know will hurt me...and doing that would hurt me. Strange thing is, my ex asked me to send him all my pictures of the two of us so he would have them since he can't see them on FB anymore. I told him I could not do that b/c I can't look at them.
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