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do NOT break NC

Martor

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Martor

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I broke a 5 week NC for the first time today, just striking up casual conversation. It brought back all of the emotions, jealousy, thoughts of her kissing and loving other men, and everything else associated with the BU. It is not worth it.

 

I guess am clinging onto the last bit of hope of getting back together. I am in a lot of pain (like many of us are), and I'm trying to let go now. I will not be contacting her ever again. It is not worth it.

 

Guess I'll just continue on grieving through NC, and hopefully one day I'll feel whole again. :)

 

 

So, moral of the story: DO NOT BREAK NC. STAY STRONG!!!!

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seriously-let-down Member

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Keep strong and maintain NC from your side of things. I've just have NC broken, but it was my STBXW contacting me, it went from letters to enquiring how I am. TBH it hasn't bothered me, because I kept my replies short and sweet. I've moved on, and she is jealous of that fact.

 

Take care, and keep it up. NC all the way. Best advice to start the healing process.

Minneloa Established Member

Minneloa

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Sorry you are hurting. Thank you for sharing your experience here. It might help others in similar situations to avoid further heartbreak.

 

Sending good thoughts.

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