Author Drummerboy420 Posted March 21, 2013 Author Posted March 21, 2013 (edited) There can be big changes in the ladies as they progress from their late 20's to early 30's and again as they approach 35. Especially if they are single and looking for long term plans. I've heard this from many people. Including women themselves. We both wanted kids. Both wanted to get married. Money was an issue for the marriage part.. Although she has admitted to having committment issues recently and in the past. Took me a little longer to come around on the kid thing. But she constantly wavered on it as well. This is kinda personal, but basically I have fertility issues. But we weren't gonna let it stop us. Supposedly. The new guy is a year older than me, and has a 7 year old daughter from a previous longterm relationship. Longer than mine and my ex's. I'm trying not to be bitter about that. She is not happy with where she is in her 30's. A family friend of mine who cuts my hair (she is in her mid-30's), said she went through the same thing at the same age. Everything she described herself saying sounded like my ex to a TEE. It freaked me out a little. Lol. My ex has been all over the place before and during the break up. At one point, she tried to adopt a dog that needed way more than she could provide (behavior issues). Then came a panic attack, and who gets the texts? *raises hand* This was while she was dating the first guy right after we split. Of course, I am vulnerable and wanting to be the hero. So I go running up there to help. Ugh.. But yeah.. This is why I am not holding out hope for anything. Her going through all of this.. Who knows how she'll be in a few months? She could be latched on to this guy, get attatched to the daughter, and that is that. She loves kids that are around 5 and up. It was one of the reasons we considered adopting. BUT.. That is all in the past. Obviously I am not her "soulmate" after all. Edited March 21, 2013 by Drummerboy420
NapoleonNotSheep Posted March 21, 2013 Posted March 21, 2013 So if women change so quickly how can we have relationship? Where is the point if in few years or even earlier she will get some weird thoughts and leave for another man? Where does it stop? At 40 when their tits are sagging and they had 3 digit number of partners and then they want to get serious when no one wants them? 1
Author Drummerboy420 Posted March 21, 2013 Author Posted March 21, 2013 So if women change so quickly how can we have relationship? Where is the point if in few years or even earlier she will get some weird thoughts and leave for another man? Where does it stop? At 40 when their tits are sagging and they had 3 digit number of partners and then they want to get serious when no one wants them? Lol. Not all are like this. But it seems to happen to so any that it is enough to make you wonder..
NapoleonNotSheep Posted March 21, 2013 Posted March 21, 2013 Sometimes I just wish I would be gay. Because women just don't know what they want in their life. Even if they know what they want when they get it they are not happy again and everything starts all over and she is never happy and if she has whole world.
Author Drummerboy420 Posted March 21, 2013 Author Posted March 21, 2013 Sometimes I just wish I would be gay. Because women just don't know what they want in their life. Even if they know what they want when they get it they are not happy again and everything starts all over and she is never happy and if she has whole world.[/] Heh.. I hear ya man. I guess that's why I avoided relationships like I did until this one came along. She was my first really serious one. Now I'm back to wanting to avoid relationships.
NapoleonNotSheep Posted March 21, 2013 Posted March 21, 2013 I avoided every girl before this one. And still I didn't want relationship because I didn't want to get f***** over and I did. Now I only want that everything would be ok and we would be together happy.
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