PartyGurl7704 Posted September 9, 2004 Posted September 9, 2004 Okay yall this is serious* My boyfriend broke up with mee a couple weeks ago for another girl. He confessed to cheating on mee for a week. It was so sad cuzz just the day before we were kissing and he was being so sweet and it just didnt seem possible. I broke out in tears on the phone and havent been able to sleep since . I have had so many friends try to get EVERYTHING out of him all he says is hes going back out with his "other" girlfriend....wich is his on-again-off-again girlfriend . He practically ignores mee everytime I see him at school. I have so many other people I can go out with but the only person I want is HIM!! And then when I talk to his friends they say that he was cheating on mee for the whole 4 months*and then some say that they got him to break up with me* and some just say he doesnt wanna be with mee anymore! But I think he still loves mee and I have been doing everything possible to get him back! Nothing works. He doesnt have a heart cuzz hes so perverted and all he wants is sex and u knoe and thats NOT the reason I like him....I dont knoe what the reason is but I cant help myself Hes such a dick tho but Im so inlove with him I dont care....I jus miss him soo much* And when I was walking to the bus a couple days ago I saw "them" kissing it made mee sick. I need him back I just cant take it anymore. And plus hes 4 years older....to mee that might might b another reason he broke up with mee but he said its not it. All my friends are saying o get over him hes not worth ur tears and stuff like that* So if anybody has any advice at all email mee at [email protected]!! I would rilly appreciate it cuz rite now Im in tears talking about it!!
Merin Posted September 9, 2004 Posted September 9, 2004 Aaagghhh! Listen you know this guy isn't worth it honey. I know you're hurt and you feel confused but there are some truth's here. First truth, nobody can MAKE or GET someone to break up with someone if that person doesn't want to. It just doesn't happen. Second, Love shouldn't be such a struggle or hurt. Third, there isn't anything more for you or your friends to get out of this guy. He told you straight up he doesn't want to be with you and he is with someone new. At this point having more details of his betrayl isn't going to make you feel any better trust me on this. Fourth, the sooner you stop sweating this guy the sooner you are going to start feeling better about yourself. Persuing someone who has told you they don't want it never goes any where good. Last thing, When it hurts a lot and you feel like you "need" to call him, DON'T! This will only prolong your misery and make you feel worse in the end.
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