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Good luck BTW. You sound like a nice guy and a boyfriend who really tries. You deserve way better than the treatment you're allowing. Hopefully, you'll see that and move on to someone who treats you as well as you treat her.

 

Thanks :-)

 

The writing is on the wall and I don't know what's holding me back as to not breaking up with her. But thank you for all the advice and insight

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You have feelings for her. That's why.

 

Either way, the breakup is going to be tough on you. It will hurt. But it will be a little easier if you end it on your terms, rather than letting her drag this out, continue to humiliate and belittle you, and then dump you. With one you keep your dignity, retain some self-esteem, and have a little control.

 

Good luck!

 

((((HUGS))))

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Omg, giant walls of text, when all that needs to be said is that she wants to, or already is fu*king someone else.

 

She wants to have sex several times a week and since you two are not having it, one of the gazillion horny guys around her are/will be. Probably someone of that friend group of hers.

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Omg, giant walls of text, when all that needs to be said is that she wants to, or already is fu*king someone else.

 

She wants to have sex several times a week and since you two are not having it, one of the gazillion horny guys around her are/will be. Probably someone of that friend group of hers.

 

Highly unlikely.

 

You have feelings for her. That's why.

 

Either way, the breakup is going to be tough on you. It will hurt. But it will be a little easier if you end it on your terms, rather than letting her drag this out, continue to humiliate and belittle you, and then dump you. With one you keep your dignity, retain some self-esteem, and have a little control.

 

Good luck!

 

((((HUGS))))

 

Thanks again. Like I said, I guess we'll see. She took me out tonight for drinks/dinner to celebrate some stuff, so that was nice.

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