McGriff Posted March 18, 2013 Posted March 18, 2013 Ok, have had a bad day as mentioned in my earlier post today. Well, it just got worse. I found out throug Facebook, that my gf who broke up with me almost a month ago is back with her ex. Not exactly shocking, but the confirmation is definitely painful. This guy has cheated on her at least 5 times, is verbally abusive, and just a general ******* (he and I got into it a few months back when he was calling her all sorts of names, disrespecting her, and just generally being a dick). I was nothing but good to her. We have no bad memories, none. How the hell does this happen?! Is she crazy? This is exhibit 1 to the notion that nice guys finish last!! Her family hates this guy, and she had nothing but bad things to say about him the whole time we were together. I JUST DON'T GET IT. And, she has been flirting with me with breadcrumbs, ever since we broke up. She just texted me an hour ago telling me to have a good st Patty's day. I am not gonna say anything to her about it, because I think I would go off. I just gotta play it cool, get these emotions under control. Right?
KatZee Posted March 18, 2013 Posted March 18, 2013 It has nothing to do with you being a "nice guy" and "finishing last." It has to due with the fact that she loves her ex, and most likely never stopped loving him even when she was with you. The heart loves who it loves, no matter how illogical or irrational it is. She needs to see how horrible he is for herself, and she needs to ACCEPT that he's horrible. Until she takes those blinders off and starts creating boundaries for herself, she's going to keep running back to him. 1
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