Rocky road Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 (edited) Hello, I will keep this brief. 5 year relationship ended one month ago. No huge problems but the last year or so was just kinda routine. We lived together in CA during most of the relationship. She dumped m out of blue, but prob was more prepared than I. I begged for a day or two, started NC but gave in several occasions due to her wanting to talk, saying I miss you, and all that. Everytime I say bye (i dont stay friends with exes) she rejects that and wants to talk again soon. What is up with this? I have no plans to contact her anytime soon and made it clear to her that it will be awhile before we talk. What? The last conversations were mostly me saying goodbye, and her wanting to catch up. I got dumped, why would I continue speaking to her? Edited March 17, 2013 by Rocky road mistake
TaraMaiden Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 The more pertinent question would be, why keep responding? She can only get to you, if you let her get to you. In all senses of the phrase.... No Contact - signature link below
AwptiK Posted March 18, 2013 Posted March 18, 2013 Unless she's coming out and saying she messed up and is pleading for you two to date again, she is just trying to be friends, solely because it satisfies her ego and makes her feel more justified for doing to you what she did. NC, all the way. If she pleads for you back and you want her back, that's the only time you can break it. I sense you don't feel that way right now, so just focus on that NC. No matter how many texts or calls go without answer.
Author Rocky road Posted March 18, 2013 Author Posted March 18, 2013 Yea, everytime I gave in to "talk" it was just to catch up or "check in." No discussion of working things out. It ended with "miss you too" and talk to you soon." I will continue NC unless the magical text comes my why
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