rana-rana Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 thats what girls do not guys lmao but seriously it sucks! met a cute guy that works 2 blocks from my job right, so he starts telling me how fine I am and he'll treat me right and all that good stuff. he found out I was 18 since he's 27 so hesitated and said he'll be back. 2 days later he comes back into the store and starts telling me that he kept thinking about me and how I seem so mature for my age and he loves that about me. Im like duh I always was mature and always will be so wtf?!! anyways he asks me if his age is cool and Im like hell yea I dont date under like a stupid ass and we laugh then he asks me out to a movie. movie dates are kinda lame but I said yes anyway cuz he cute and I wanna get to know him better right? so he makes the date for friday and Im like cool w/e so we exchange cells and I wait for him to call/text w/e right and then when he does he ****s on me with excuses! he tells me he cant do this. how it dont feel right. Im too good to be true and all this lame ass **** I hate! he's the 2nd guy to do this crap this yr and I just dont get it? usually guys my age might act dumb like this but older guys doing it to me so whats going on? why waste my time then complain girls dont give u guys a chance? grow up already cuz men his age are too old for this nonsense.
MrCastle Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 grow up already cuz men his age are too old for this nonsense. No. Men his age are too old for 18 year olds.
miss_jaclynrae Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 1. Cuz isn't a real word. 2. You probably dodged a bullet. 1
Author rana-rana Posted March 17, 2013 Author Posted March 17, 2013 My brain is exploding. seriously? I thought this was the place where u get advice but no one here has any so w/e.
miss_jaclynrae Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 seriously? I thought this was the place where u get advice but no one here has any so w/e. It is hard to give advice when there isn't much to advise on...
Keenly Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 seriously? I thought this was the place where u get advice but no one here has any so w/e. What do you want advice on? He told you it didn't feel right, and you are saying you hate how people exercise their free will. He was not feeling it, probably because you are so young, or maybe he found some one else, or maybe he was just too lazy to go out that night.
Author rana-rana Posted March 17, 2013 Author Posted March 17, 2013 What do you want advice on? He told you it didn't feel right, and you are saying you hate how people exercise their free will. He was not feeling it, probably because you are so young, or maybe he found some one else, or maybe he was just too lazy to go out that night. its stupid cuz why waste my time and tell me how much he wants to take me out then run away like a girl lol. then these same guys complain they cant get play from us but when they do they cant handle it. ugh!
miss_jaclynrae Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 its stupid cuz why waste my time and tell me how much he wants to take me out then run away like a girl lol. then these same guys complain they cant get play from us but when they do they cant handle it. ugh! Was your time REALLY wasted though? He didn't run away. He just changed his mind. Maybe he didn't like you anymore. People are able to change their minds you know... 1
Author rana-rana Posted March 17, 2013 Author Posted March 17, 2013 Was your time REALLY wasted though? He didn't run away. He just changed his mind. Maybe he didn't like you anymore. People are able to change their minds you know... why would he not like me anymore?! I didnt do anything yet. he was just a ****ing chicken thats all and he better not come back in my store again! and girls have reasons why we change our minds. guys shouldnt unless we do something to make it ok papi?
Woggle Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 why would he not like me anymore?! I didnt do anything yet. he was just a ****ing chicken thats all and he better not come back in my store again! and girls have reasons why we change our minds. guys shouldnt unless we do something to make it ok papi? I agree that he shouldn't have done this but this attitude isn't getting you much sympathy. If you don't want it done to you don't do it to others. 1
iKING Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 People are able to change their minds you know... Blasphemy!
miss_jaclynrae Posted March 18, 2013 Posted March 18, 2013 why would he not like me anymore?! I didnt do anything yet. he was just a ****ing chicken thats all and he better not come back in my store again! and girls have reasons why we change our minds. guys shouldnt unless we do something to make it ok papi? I could think of a few reasons... papi.
Author rana-rana Posted March 18, 2013 Author Posted March 18, 2013 I agree that he shouldn't have done this but this attitude isn't getting you much sympathy. If you don't want it done to you don't do it to others. how u figure? I never do it unless the guy acts like a ass then maybe I will but I never do it just because. if Im feeling a guy I give him a chance I dont make up excuses for nothing.
nofool4u Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 so he makes the date for friday and Im like cool w/e so we exchange cells and I wait for him to call/text w/e right and then when he does he ****s on me with excuses! he tells me he cant do this. how it dont feel right. Im too good to be true and all this lame ass **** I hate! he's the 2nd guy to do this crap this yr and I just dont get it? usually guys my age might act dumb like this but older guys doing it to me so whats going on? why waste my time then complain girls dont give u guys a chance? grow up already cuz men his age are too old for this nonsense. Would you prefer he went on the date, used your for sex THEN told you it didn't feel right? (I'm assuming he is talking about the age thing) So you say he is acting dumb and this is the 2nd guy to do this with you. So if he is acting dumb, then why do YOU think he bailed if it wasn't him feeling weird about the age difference, or the fact you are barely out of high school? Did it occur to you that he simply isn't too jazzed about the age thing, thought he might see if dating you would be cool, then it simply just didn't sit right with him? So if not that for a reason, then what? He didn't take you out and use you. He is stopping it before that.
nofool4u Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 and girls have reasons why we change our minds. guys shouldnt unless we do something to make it ok papi? Ah, I see now what it was that turned him off.... immaturity. That along with the whole Valley Girl, like "whateva" attitude. Cute only goes so far until the mouth opens and says just a little too much. 1
nofool4u Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 how u figure? I never do it unless the guy acts like a ass then maybe I will but I never do it just because. if Im feeling a guy I give him a chance I dont make up excuses for nothing. Again, if you think he is making excuses, what do YOU think is the reason he doesn't want to go out with you? Your looks? Your Valley Girl way of speaking?
bittersweet memories Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 how u figure? I never do it unless the guy acts like a ass then maybe I will but I never do it just because. if Im feeling a guy I give him a chance I dont make up excuses for nothing. The guy wasn't feeling u obvioulsy. People change their mind all the time...including males. He just wasn't that into u.
KatZee Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 why would he not like me anymore?! I didnt do anything yet. he was just a ****ing chicken thats all and he better not come back in my store again! and girls have reasons why we change our minds. guys shouldnt unless we do something to make it ok papi? You're mature and always will be? OK sweetie. You're not hard. Stop acting like it. He's not into you, get over it. He didn't even go on one date with you, so take yourself down a notch. And believe it or not 27 year old guys can be just as immature and even more so than younger guys.
carhill Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 OP, when you're 27 this will make a lot more sense and I'll bet the 'hate' will have morphed into 'understanding'. Another young man will be along presently and this one will be forgotten like yesterday's newspaper. Enjoy your youth.
Ninjainpajamas Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 Look, you're practically a little kid...the best thing you have to offer is a nice shinier newer vagina to an older guy, that's about it realistically. You think you're mature for your age? you know the people who made that up?....young people, so they can tell themselves they're "ahead of the pack"...of course you can be more mature than your peers, but it doesn't mean you're on the level of a 27 year old, it doesn't mean you the have the sense or experience...and from you're writing and the way you speak, you seem anything other than mature, so stop fooling yourself. This guy didn't want to get involved with a teeny bopper, he knows how easy and incompetent you are, and a guy with any pride or integrity is going to be conflicted with being with someone as young as you, because you're a guppy, you're fresh meat, candy from a baby....in fact you actually listened to all the BS he was telling you..that's the first sign of naivety, he's just BSing you...charming you, and when you're 27 and every other guy has used the exact same line to get in your pants then maybe by then the little light bulb will go off in your head and you'll realize these guys don't think you're perfect...they're just saying the things you want to hear...it's that simple, it's easy, how is this confusing? I'm glad the guy stepped away, means he might actually have a shred of dignity, otherwise maybe he just got scared and intimidated by the age difference...maybe he just couldn't see him going "that low" for some easy vagina...however temping, which it is for most men to say the least. So there you have it...don't take it serious, you'll run into a lot of other guys saying things they don't really mean to you that you'll naively take seriously...don't worry, there's plenty of these guys every five feet, you'll have no shortage. 1
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