PhillyDude Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 1. Message from someone with no photo 2. Message from someone attractive who lives 1000 of miles away 3. Message from someone who is way out of your age bracket Out of the three i think the one that annoys me the most is number 1
mortensorchid Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 THe first, for sure. I used to email the person back and say "I would like to see a picture please", and NONE have returned the email. It could be spam, law enforcement, or a scam, but not one have ever responded. Oh wait, there was one a few years ago on Match. Whoever it was said they don't know how to upload a photo but once they did they would get one to me ASAP. I'm still waiting.
Author PhillyDude Posted March 17, 2013 Author Posted March 17, 2013 THe first, for sure. I used to email the person back and say "I would like to see a picture please", and NONE have returned the email. It could be spam, law enforcement, or a scam, but not one have ever responded. Oh wait, there was one a few years ago on Match. Whoever it was said they don't know how to upload a photo but once they did they would get one to me ASAP. I'm still waiting. Number 2 is annoying too because they are my type and it's NOTHING i can do about it lol
MrCastle Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 1. Message from someone with no photo 2. Message from someone attractive who lives 1000 of miles away 3. Message from someone who is way out of your age bracket 4. Message from someone you find unattractive who lives 5 miles away. At least in your #2 example, if ya'll hit it off you can be text buddies and if you ever find yourself in their neck of the woods, have someone to meet/possibly hook up with. But getting a message notification and opening it up to find it's someone the complete opposite of what you're looking for is a donkey kick in the groin.
Author PhillyDude Posted March 17, 2013 Author Posted March 17, 2013 4. Message from someone you find unattractive who lives 5 miles away. At least in your #2 example, if ya'll hit it off you can be text buddies and if you ever find yourself in their neck of the woods, have someone to meet/possibly hook up with. But getting a message notification and opening it up to find it's someone the complete opposite of what you're looking for is a donkey kick in the groin. Or #5.........message from someone who is 1000 miles away and ugly How are you going to be FAR and UGLY? LOL
fortyninethousand322 Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 It has been a long time since I got an unsolicited message on a dating site. So I guess count your lucky stars that someone thinks you're interesting/good looking enough to be interested in.
Keenly Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 Ill go with 6, a girl that I went to high school with, and dated her best friend, finds me on 3 different dating sites and proceeds to try and message me on all three of them.
carhill Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 I can't recall an OLD message which annoyed me so I'd have to say none of the above. I did laugh at a few. A sense of humor helps when doing OLD, I found. 2
Author PhillyDude Posted March 17, 2013 Author Posted March 17, 2013 I can't recall an OLD message which annoyed me so I'd have to say none of the above. I did laugh at a few. A sense of humor helps when doing OLD, I found. So someone HOT and FAR would not annoy you?
MsSmurf Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 1. Message from someone with no photo 2. Message from someone attractive who lives 1000 of miles away 3. Message from someone who is way out of your age bracket Out of the three i think the one that annoys me the most is number 1 #2 is the most annoying largely because they aren't relocating to my area so contacting me is just a waste of time. #1 comes in second only because if the rest of their profile is interesting I can contact them asking for a picture.
happykat Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 #6- Message from the handsome man who said he is looking for a relationship and immediately asked for my bra size and if I was "natural";) 2
happykat Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 I did laugh at a few. A sense of humor helps when doing OLD, I found. Yes! I think the best approach is that you can hope for the best, but take none of it completely seriously.. forgot to add #7 - Message from the man (whom I told I do not "sex chat") that said "that's OK with can have a normal chat", but he attached a penis pic for good measure anyway! lol 1
Author PhillyDude Posted March 17, 2013 Author Posted March 17, 2013 Yes! I think the best approach is that you can hope for the best, but take none of it completely seriously.. forgot to add #7 - Message from the man (whom I told I do not "sex chat") that said "that's OK with can have a normal chat", but he attached a penis pic for good measure anyway! lol Probably because you mentioned SEX in your profile
happykat Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 Probably because you mentioned SEX in your profile so you think listing felatio as one of my interests was a bad idea then? 7
Author PhillyDude Posted March 17, 2013 Author Posted March 17, 2013 so you think listing felatio as one of my interests was a bad idea then? Of course it was
outsidethebox Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 Ill go with 6, a girl that I went to high school with, and dated her best friend, finds me on 3 different dating sites and proceeds to try and message me on all three of them. how is that possibly annoying? god don't you people start with overeager crap again.
Author PhillyDude Posted March 17, 2013 Author Posted March 17, 2013 how is that possibly annoying? god don't you people start with overeager crap again. May the girl who was trying to contact him was a MONSTER lol
outsidethebox Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 she dated his friend, same social clique monster or otherwise
miss_jaclynrae Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 9 times out of 10... #1 is a result of them being unattractive. 1
Keenly Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 she dated his friend, same social clique monster or otherwise No.... you have it incorrect. I dated her best friend. For a long time. I don't think they are friends anymore. I'm not interested in dating the former best friend of some one I have already dated, it would make me feel uncomfortable. 1
phineas Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 9 times out of 10... #1 is a result of them being unattractive. and possibly dumb. I had one tell me she couldn't figure out how to upload a picture.
Keenly Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 and possibly dumb. I had one tell me she couldn't figure out how to upload a picture. one girl had "money" listed as one of her interests ahaha
Star Gazer Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 #3. I am not interested in 21 year old boys or 50 year old men.
miss_jaclynrae Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 I think the ones that bug me the most are the ones where they write like an idiot.
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