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Is this girl leading me on?


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She has rejected my two offers to go out on a date, but continues to tell me she has romantic feelings for me?

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How is she rejecting the offers? And how is she telling you her feelings?

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Lol, I probably should have given more context. I met this girl a few months ago when she became friends with one of the girls in my group and from the off there was definitely a mutual attraction between us. We were very flirty and playful with each other. This went on for a month or so until after much encouragement from our friends I finally conjured up the courage to ask her out, but when I did she virtually ignored the question and changed the subject. Later that day she talked to me on Facebook and asked me, ‘if I was mad and that if I was I shouldn’t be because she had romantic feelings for me as well”, but when I asked her why she turned me down she wouldn’t really explain so I decided to leave it. Another couple of months went by with more of the same; a lot of flirting and apparent mutual interest. So again I was persuaded by our friends that she was interested me and that I should ask her out. This time all she said was, “it would be awkward”, and then walked away. Later that night she sent me a virtually identical facebook message. I'm baffled.

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Is she dating or in a relationship with someone? Have you noticed her flirting with another guy in your group?

 

Either way, just move one. Ultimately, when rubber hit the road, she wouldn't date.

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No, she's single. I've noticed her flirting with other guys a few times, but when i asked her about it she said she was just having a bit of fun and that she only felt 'that way" about me.

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Since she refuses to date you, sounds like she's having a bit of fun with you too. Time to focus on others who might actually be interested in dating you.

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I would say yes. She's leading you on.

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I agree. Thanks for your time and advice.

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How old is she? She sounds really young.

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Move on OP.

Be prepared for her to not leave you alone and get really annoying.

 

You seem to be her favorite play thing & women like her don't like to let those go easily.

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She has rejected my two offers to go out on a date, but continues to tell me she has romantic feelings for me?

 

 

if she really liked you she wouldnt reject you with out an explanation.......deb

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No, she's single. I've noticed her flirting with other guys a few times, but when i asked her about it she said she was just having a bit of fun and that she only felt 'that way" about me.

 

she's lying to u papi trust. I never do that to a guy I like. never ever ever.

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