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My boyfriend made out with a girl while we were broken up


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He wants to get back together and I accepted him knowing he didn't do anything like that. But now I know the truth and I still love him, we were separated for a month after NC but he came back for me because he still loves me.

 

What should I do? I'm confused if he really does love me cause he made out with this girl multiple times in two nights. It didn't go anywhere further than that but still, a kiss is still a kiss. He said he came back cause he still loved me after that.

 

We a both virgins. The girl he made out with is a certified whore and she was asking to have sex with him, but he didn't accept. Does that mean something?

He said that he really didn't want to do what he did, that the feeling was like he was out of control or something. That he was like on drugs and he couldn't control or say no. He did admit to initiating the makeout the first few times but he said he didn't enjoy it. And he doesn't know why he did it.

 

I know him, what kind of guy he is and he's only kissed his ex (first girlfriend) and me(2nd girlfriend) his whole life. He doesn't make out or kiss anyone he doesn't have feelings for and he surely does not sleep around or do one night stands. I'm his first serious girlfriend. I know for sure that he didn't like this girl, she was just seducing him.

 

any thoughts? I'm confused cause I still love him. I mean, is there any reason for me to take him back because of what he did?

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Ummm...i think your over dramatizing and very inexperienced. What he did when he broke up with you is his business only, not yours. Your only concern should be that he wants you back and what are you going to do about it to make it work.

 

Relationships are not storybooks or fairytales. **** happens...move on and try to make the best with what you have.

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If you really want to get back with him, that'd be a really stupid reason not to. You were broken up, he can do whatever he wants. You have no hold over him when you are broken up.

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