d0620 Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 (edited) After 30 days of NC, he sent me a photo of a project he was working on while we were together. In an effort not to show him I was harboring ill feelings I commented oh that's nice. Very short and he then responded where are you come over. I said why? His response was to see me and I responded again why? He said ok sorry I asked. I said no problem have a good day. Later I text him and said you already have shown me where I stood but I don't have any hard feelings towards you. He asked again "where are you"? I said busy and that's all I wanted you to know. No response back to that. That was Thursday. I was too busy living my life, why would he think it would be so simple as to invite me over? I was offended by his arrogance in not apologizing for his actions not attempting to woo me back just expected me to be so excited to hear from him that I would just drop everything he did to me and go running back? The only reason he contacted me is because he heard I was seeing the ex husband of a girl that works with him. I haven't heard back from him since Thursday. I would have expected him to at least send me flowers even just as a friendly apology but instead you just ask me to come over like you went on break and now you are ready for me again. Okay This fell very short of the fantasy reunion I thought we would have from the beginning. All I keep replaying in my head is that last text he sent me "lets not do this anymore and I will not be responding." 3 days of my texting and emails and no responses...when a person can walk away from you "LET THEM WALK". I don't want no man who doesn't care enough about me to stay. Then when you come back you act like you a king and I am suppose to bow down to kiss your feet. I felt like be should have come back to me bearing gifts and being apologetic for his actions. Fat chance right. 30 days later I still care about him and secretly wishing he would come properly, since he did not I will go back to NC and it didn't set me back. I am dating someone else and he may be a rebound but I am happy and I am going to go with that. Edited March 17, 2013 by d0620
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