Martor Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 Dating back as far as the TWO relationships before me. I have realized that she treated us all the exact same way. She is a loving, horny, awesome girlfriend for the first year, and then she loses all sense of passion and love and everything becomes complacent for the following years, leaving us (the boyfriends) in a state of frustration, emotional turmoil, restlessness, longing, and wanting the "old" relationship back. My conclusion? She was a **** girlfriend. She didn't learn anything from her past relationships, and she will never develop or grow into a better lover. She will never change. Even though it was her breaking up with all of us, I recognized that each of these was a "forced" breakup, as none of us guys were man enough to do it ourselves, or we were clinging on to the last bits of hope that she would "come back around". She's hot, and probably thinks she can eventually get away with Take, take, take, with no give. She'll probably find some guy that is brain-dead and willing to put up with this bull****. What a poor sucker that bloke is. I know I shouldn't have invaded her privacy, but I actually feel this was a pivotal stage in my healing process. Now that I'm privy to the fact I am not the only guy that was treated like this, I feel I can regain control over the mental spirals I've been through in this breakup (6 months broken up, had sex for 5 months, 1 month NC). Just sucks that it hurts so much, and that a breakup can really **** with your head so badly. Here's hoping that all of us are strong enough to heal and move past this time in our lives, and may courage and optimism be with all of you.
SimonSerenade Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 You'd think something like this would kill you inside, you know reading messages from her ex's but just like you I went through my ex girlfriends emails, she used to have a laptop at my house and because I bought it she just left it with me, I never went anywhere near the thing until a few months in to the break up and wow.... I know I read some stuff I'd sooner not have lol but it helped to know I wasn't being singled out in being treated that way, there was one guy who sounded even more heart broken than I was, saying he was on the edge of killing himself and reading it, I was convinced this guy was going to do it and all she could reply with was "ok", I really felt for the guy but I needed to see that to realise it was never me, it was all her, she was just a cold hearted witch all long and it has nothing to do with me. Don't feel bad for invading her privacy man, **** that bitch!, girls like that will always think there entitled to this that and all the other, you just like the other guys had a lucky escape, just pray to god the next guy knows better and keep up your progress but man, it sounds like you really needed to see all of this. 1
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