After how many months do girls start feeling comfortable going to a guys house?

[Driftking102]

Just an overall opinion, how many months does it take for a girl to start feeling comfortable enough to go to a guys house? As many of you know I'm letting this girl make all the moves because she wants to. I just want an overall opinion of how many months it takes girls on average. I've been dating her 10 months as many of you know and things are going great, but i really would like her to come to my house. Not to have sex, just to hangout. If it did lead to sex then that's great.

[Krieger]

ask her it has been 10 months all ready.

[iKING]

Anywhere from 30 minutes to a month or two from my experience.

[Driftking102]

I asked her and she said she will come when shes comfortable w/e that means

[Bengal Tiger]

Just ask a very specific invitation that she can say yes or no. Don't leave it open ended.

 

A good example can be "I rented that movie we talked about and am making some dish that I'm good at, would you like to come over Saturday for dinner and a movie?"

 

10 months already? If she's not comfortable being alone with you by now then something is off. There are trust issues.

[apple OR orange]

thats read as "i like you so much i just dont want to be at your house"...

 

that sentance didnt make sense, so that means "i am not bothered to do more with you so not comming over your house".

 

Yep makes more sense

[crude]

You can put her at ease by telling her "those heavy metal bars on the doors and windows are to keep people OUT, not IN."

[MrCastle]

How many months? Or how many drinks?

[Star Gazer]

I'd say if I'm not comfortable going to his house by the 5th date, I never will be.

[Driftking102]

Just ask a very specific invitation that she can say yes or no. Don't leave it open ended.

 

A good example can be "I rented that movie we talked about and am making some dish that I'm good at, would you like to come over Saturday for dinner and a movie?"

 

10 months already? If she's not comfortable being alone with you by now then something is off. There are trust issues.

 

I ask her that generic type of question every two months. I guess I should just be patient and chill and not do anything. I just want her to come and watch a movie at my house. she's fine with watching a movie alone with me at the theater. Maybe I'm just anxious. I'm just kinda letting her make all the moves and gonna wait because that's what she wanted.

[pyramid]

Wow. Yeah, a month at most for me. Have you guys had sex?

[Driftking102]

Wow. Yeah, a month at most for me. Have you guys had sex?

 

Have done everything but sex. Even been naked with each other but no sex yet

[miss_jaclynrae]

After how many dates do girls start feeling comfortable going to a guys house?

 

 

 

 

I fixed it for you.

[Hopeful30]

I don't think it's a matter of time. It depends on how comfortable she feels around YOU.

 

For some guys it took me months, for others a mere week. It depends on how she feels around you.