singme2sleep Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 (edited) This thread is for every dumpee out there who is holding onto hope of getting their dumper back. Kill the hope. It's not getting us anywhere and we're just kidding ourselves. Like all of you, I had this Fairytale notion that my ex will come to his senses and show up at my door with rises and beg for a 2nd chance. But life is not a movie and life is not a book! By holding onto this hope we are keeping ourselves from healing. And why should we be crying, not eating/sleeping, laying in our beds all day when our smug ex's probably aren't?? It's a bitter pill to swallow because we all think of the good times. But they're over and we need to move on with our lives. It's painful and it sucks to leave the one we love in the past, but let's remember it was their choice to walk away. They decided to remove us from their lives and now we must nurse our broken heart and prove to them we won't stop living! I was holding onto the 3% chance my ex wound change his mind, but I'm tired of feeling like a fool. He's the fool and he'll never find another woman who will love him and treat him as awesome as I did. So please my friends, remember...it is THEIR LOSS!!!! We are all great individuals and we have to stop feeling sorry for ourselves. We also need to stop listening to these random stories of dumpers who came back because those are the exceptions, and like I said, we are the rule! (I'm not trying to sound harsh, just helpful.) Edited March 17, 2013 by singme2sleep 9
LaFemmeBrille Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 I agree. I harbor no illusions anymore about exes returning. But that doesn't mean I'm not moping some. That said, I was just dumped today. I will feel better someday...
destroyed4sho Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 I'm glad you came to your senses.... Chances of getting back an ex that DUMPED you are very low, and even if they do come back, the chance you will take them back are low as well. You may THINK RIGHT NOW that you would take them back in an instant because they were THE love your life, etc..... but when/if it actually happens you realize that the tears and time you spent grieving for them is not worth to risk it all again. 1
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