yes Posted September 8, 2004 Posted September 8, 2004 You start seeing someone casually. They have a significant other. They break up with the significant other. You understand that any break-up is tough, and are willing to wait around a bit until they become emotionally available to you. Question: How do you behave? Do you give them space? Do you give them a shoulder to cry on or not? Please share experiences and thoughts. thanks, -yes
Splatty Posted September 14, 2004 Posted September 14, 2004 I you want a fair chance you will have to wait. It is not easy to get over a break-up and you will be a rebound. Wait until they have accepted their situation.
JoL Posted September 14, 2004 Posted September 14, 2004 You started dating BEFORE this person broke up with their partner? Hmm...were you a part of the reason this happened? Any break-up is tough. A lot of the time people jump straight into another relationship without even realising it. Everyone needs time between relationships to figure things out. If it's meant to be with you and this person- it will happen. All you can do is be patient and supportive of this person until they are ready to make the next step. If they express concern to you about their emotional availability for the present and near future- you might have to start accepting they may not be available for a relationship any time soon.
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