Bountyman Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 On a serious note im a guy who can take alot of nonsense but theres a line before bull**** pisses me off. this however goes beyond me. So i met this wonderful girl and we are currently in the process of understanding one another so the other day we were talking and this what she came out with. She informed me due to the fact im mixed race yes !!! no lies i swear these were her words..due to the fact im mixed race he barriers have now increased (she normally could talk for hours now not even 9/10 words) because her last boyfriend was the same colour and he robbed her savings tried to force her to marry him for visa purposes. I dont know if i should be insulted!!! its understandable what she went through but surely you cannot paint each canvas with the same brush...Now if i were to do that shes bound to cheat as my last post was an real eye opener as people in this forum like to keep it real!!!!. Should i drop her and her messy **** or take it like a man and make a plan. Bountyman
TigerCub Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Drop her!!! Sorry for her that she got screwed over before- but for her to assume that just because one mixed guy ****ed her over - ALL mixed guys are bad is just ignorant. Why would you even entertain the thought of being with someone where you're going to be on "probationary" terms until you really proved yourself whereas a non mixed person would just get everything so much easier with this girl?? I wouldn't go into something where a person is almost making feel like I should be apologizing for being a certain race, or just being me. She can go **** herself. You can do better.
soccerrprp Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Drop her. She's shown you that she's naive and prone to irrational behavior. It is certainly insulting. BTW, are you a citizen of the UK? If so, point that out. Good luck!
Author Bountyman Posted March 16, 2013 Author Posted March 16, 2013 Yeah, ive been here 14 years!! Dont mean im a damn chief!!!
PogoStick Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Don't drop her harsh. Have a talk and tell her if she feels that way then you don't want to be with her. Put it down gentle and give it a week to see if she apologizes and comes back.
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