NYC-BigKat Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 At my new job me & 2 coworkers went to a restaurant & ate some japanese food & it was really good right? There's also a little bar but I dont really drink but I went there & ordered cranberry juice with a little bit of absolut in there only 'cause my coworker said everyone needs a buzz. Anyway um..this cute girl sat across me & my coworker nudged me to talk to her & I told him that I didn't wanna go back to being rejected by girls anymore but he said not to be like that & just dive in there right? So I said hi & she said hi & then I started asking her lots of questions about herself & stuff & she got upset & turned off & said I ask too many questions & she left. I sat there numb & stupid & then my coworker says that he can tell I'm new at this stuff but am really not . I always thought girls liked guys to ask them questions so why are they upset now about it? And did my coworker just insult me??
pyramid Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Questions are fine, but make sure it's a conversation and not an interview! Listen to her answers and respond, keep the conversation going - don't jump to the next question on your mental list. 2
Author NYC-BigKat Posted March 16, 2013 Author Posted March 16, 2013 Questions are fine, but make sure it's a conversation and not an interview! Listen to her answers and respond, keep the conversation going - don't jump to the next question on your mental list. I didn't keep jumping around I just kept asking her more & more stuff about things she like to do 'cause she never asked me anything & I wanted to keep the convo going as long as possible but couldn't . It just seems that girls never ask guys anything from what I see nowadays u know so we gotta do all the work.
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